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Date Posted: 06:58:27 04/25/03 Fri
Author: Lee
Subject: Re: 一生中摰友
In reply to: 死仔強 's message, "一生中摰友" on 22:31:09 04/24/03 Thu

阿強,很久沒寫信給你了,想不到,你的中文水平又高了.

但這次,我一看了你的文章,心頭自自然然冒出怒火.這不代表我憎恨丘中,而是你使我生氣,我可以大聲,且無愧於心地罵你一句:"井底之蛙".沒錯,阿強,我是說你是井底之蛙.

這些年來,你付出了多少,你有多認真,你有多勤力...這些問題的答案,你自己心中最清楚.在我還沒離開丘中的時候,你的學習態度,都是有目共睹的,測驗前懶懶閒,功課又唔做,試問這樣的態度,是別人迫你的,還是你自己選擇的.言而,我這懶人是沒資格罵你懶的,但請自己想想,你的學習態度...

凡事都是相向的,學習也是一樣.導師,是指"引導","指導"的意思,換句話說,想得到真正的知識,導師為副,自己為正.這麼一來,"拖累","害"這些字眼,再也不能加到別人身上,要怨天尤人,就大聲罵自己.古來聖賢,十年寒窗苦讀,他們有老師幫忙嗎?他們有學校上課嗎?他們就連紙筆墨也不足,為何他們又能成功,成為學識廣博的人呢?又想想自己,為何我會說你是井底之蛙?

"別問他人給你做到多少,要問自己給自己做到多少."

非典型肺炎給你帶來的假期,你做了些甚麼沒有?這答案,就是你的問題所在,也是我最生氣的地方.世界上有三種人,第一種人,有大理想,有大毅力,也將會有大成就;第二種人,沒甚麼理想,凡事不強求,一生喜樂平淡;第三種人,有理想,卻不願付出太多,且只論回報,怨天尤人,自得其煩.你為何者?

香港人的最大弊病,就是太強求回報,想想,自己付出了多少,貢獻了多少.

有一件事,你說得沒錯,我,Timmey Wu,阿So,我們三人都在進步,就連我們三人的友誼也增進了不少,何故?因為我們腳踏實地,不強求,不幻想,不發白日夢,我們對事,能做到"無愧於心",對朋友,能做到"無私心".你呢?你心中有這兩個"無"字嗎?

我為人好簡單,做對了,我會稱讚,做錯了,我會指責,若有不滿,大可找我--李嘉喜!

P.S. Sorry to Timmey,借用了你的日記版.

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