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Subject: Am I being unreasonable?


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slpd0388
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Date Posted: 10:34:04 11/21/03 Fri

Someone please tell me if I'm overreacting. I lived with Husband for almost 2 years now. He & I were both single and unattached for 5 years before we lived together. A week ago, he planned to take 2 days off from work for this week. He told his boss but never told me about it. When I realized he was staying home yesterday because it was his day off, I got offended because he never told me about it. I felt that I wasn't important to him. He said I shouldn't be upset and that he didn't realize that it was important for me to know. He had no big plans on his 2 days off anyway, except sleep and eat. I explained that it would be nice if I knew where he was and what he's doing since he's my husband. He accused me of being very jealous and controlling. I don't think I am jealous because, even though he's nice, kind, reliable and I love him, he's not exactly Hercules. I just felt unimportant to him. Anyway, now he calls me up everytime he leaves home, to buy groceries, to go to his mom, to buy gas, etc. It has become very annoying. Plus, everytime I see him, he says he's very depressed and he doesn't know why. I'm thinking he's depressed because he just realized he married a very controlling wife. But I don't think I'm controlling, just not important enough. Am I overreacting? I don't want to be controlling but I don't want to pretend I'm not hurt by what he did. Would you get hurt too if your husband did this to you?

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Re: Am I being unreasonable?Been there done that13:00:02 11/27/04 Sat


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