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Subject: Re: Sometimes..................


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Hulalea
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Date Posted: 12:59:41 12/05/07 Wed
In reply to: Shari 's message, "Re: Sometimes.................." on 21:32:12 12/04/07 Tue

As hard as it sounds, the restraining order was a blessing for me. It showed my ex that my boundaries are defined and I refuse to give in which made him respect the boundaries because in the past if he violated it, I would report him and he would spend a few days in jail. This also helps them more than we know by bringing up their bottom but more importantly, it gave me and my kids a lot more peace - which is what we deserve and is all that we could control. Can't control the addict because the addict can't control themselves so they need help - shut them down with the R.O. and call the cops everytime they violate. It's not the nicest thing to do but it IS the kindest thing you can do for them. Take care of you and the boys.
God Be with you,
Hulalea

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