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Date Posted: 16:02:31 02/24/05 Thu
Author: julie
Subject: Re: Serious Question
In reply to: ? 's message, "Re: Serious Question" on 14:00:19 02/24/05 Thu

so, this is a good question. and sorry if this is supposed to be an anonymous discussion. of course, as i think others have said, the most important thing is that she has repented. did this happen before she became a christian? if not, you have some serious things to talk about with her. talk about them, though, and figure out where she stands. if she is repentant, GOD has forgiven her, and therefore you have no reason not to... that is null and void in His eyes. to me, the issue isn't coming clean w/ you as much as the issue is being repentant, and having asked GOD - AND YOU - for forgiveness. i would say, tho, to be careful if it happened after becoming a christian and any red flags are going up. don't judge her - whether she's good or bad - by it, but remember that you only want to be attached to someone you can trust. if you have misgivings, or you feel like she isn't truly repentant, or you feel the Holy Spirit telling you to be careful, then BE CAREFUL! be sure to decide, in your heart, where you stand... before you go any further. if you think you can't trust her b/c of the circumstances of it, etc... you need to be sure to get that straight and figure yourself out before you go any further w/ her.

my prayers are w/ you. can't be easy. wish i knew who you are but that doesn't matter. this just made me think - so figured i'd throw in my two pence.;)
julie

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