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Date Posted: 02:57:56 02/03/03 Mon
Author: Di Di
Subject: Happy together?

Due to my financial status, my partner and I used to live in a place of around 100 square feet. At that time, she was not happy enough.

Now, I can afford to own a unit with at least one bed room and an open kitchen. However, she's still not happy. Her reason is : the place is not owned by her and she's afraid if, for some reason, I leave her alone which make her no place to live.

Please tell me what i should do, should i share the ownership with her?

She's a mother of a 8 year old boy, whenever her son stay overnight, I need to sleep by myself. I try not to show my sadness, but sometimes can't help and quarrel with her.

Please teach me how to cope with a divoiced women?

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[> solution -- x, 05:11:35 02/03/03 Mon

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[> [> Re: solution -- Di Di, 06:30:48 02/03/03 Mon

Thanks for your advice.
According to your guideline, i shouldn't share the ownership.

She knows i'm not happy but she can't help cos he's her one and only one child

in this world. She told me i need to accept this fact if i love her.

The little boy told her mum a few days ago, 'it would be the best if you and

daddy were living together with me', this made her feel extremely sad. She

thinks she's taking the most important thing away from him (to live with

parents happily).

The child maybe still doesn't know our relationship right now, however,

whenhe study high school, he may know .... the truth.

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[> Re: Happy together? -- SAM, 01:54:55 02/04/03 Tue

Do your girlfriend making her living? i.e. does she work as well? Better know what caused her divoice..

Assumed you are working very hard to own a flat, if she cannot appreciate your effort and still complaint she did not having partial ownership. You should reconsider the relationship between you and her.

Better keep independent financial. Dont be regret at the end of the day.

Devoted to love is fine but make sure the person is deserved.

Good luck!

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[> [> Re: Happy together? -- Di Di, 22:46:17 02/04/03 Tue

Thanks, Sam.

She is making her living by herself. She divoiced cos she can't live with her husband, especially when doing ...

I usually come home late due to my job nature which let her down so many times. The only solution for this is for me to change field, maybe to become a junior clerk?

Actually she didn't say that she wants half of the ownership, she just doesn't feel comfortable cos sometimes i treated her son not good enough when he came to my place.

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[> Re: Happy together? -- KK, 08:41:00 02/05/03 Wed

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[> [> My partner is in love with another girl la -- Di Di, 05:18:23 02/26/03 Wed

It's very sad to face the truth cos it's really hurt. It's neither the matter of the ownership of the house nor the relationship between me and her son. She is loving another girl! I ask her to leave the house in one month time, but she said i'm rude to her. What should i do? Wait for her till they are apart? or should i give myself another chance? She said if she moved away she won't come back any more.

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[> Re: Happy together? -- who, 21:11:37 02/26/03 Wed

DIDI,
just simply let her go! let your hands off of her! if she does love you, she won't fall in love with another girl!! She is only caring herself not you!!!
think twice and what/how to deal with this relationship between you and her as quickly as possible...

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[> [> Re: Happy together? -- Di Di, 09:40:18 02/27/03 Thu

it's very difficult to do so,i haven't got that strength. i'm in love her so deeply that i can't just let her go.

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[> Re: Happy together? -- H, 15:56:15 02/27/03 Thu

Di Di, qƥݨ, ڻ{AܷM, ApartnerڥObQΧA. pGouRp, o|uIMoeRWLH.

Ma. ȱoۨpHO. Good Luck.

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[> Re: Happy together? -- k̽k, 08:25:34 03/01/03 Sat

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[> Re: Happy together? -- KK, 23:44:38 03/01/03 Sat

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and order her to go, and better don't come back anymore!!!

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[> \ܵLI,ڳY\̿oӭ -- Di Di, 06:13:06 03/06/03 Thu

That's what she told me some days ago. She's going to move out. But she still contact me by phone. Whenever i listened to her voice, i couldn't sleep well on that night!

I know i'm very stupid, but how can i be a brave girl?

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[> [> Re: \ܵLI,ڳY\̿oӭ -- Fan, 08:25:51 03/06/03 Thu

When she gone, she also said the same words to me!!!
so what, I don't feel any better in my heart, it hurt,
because she is loving another guy!!
I feel very angry and I dont' want to see her again!!

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[> Re: Happy together? -- KK, 08:06:42 03/06/03 Thu

tell yourself you can...
then you can...!!!
pls tell her don't say that full of shit...
if she really love you...
she will not do such thing to hurt you, right!!!

of course this is your hard time...
but never give up..
clear your mind...
beautiful your mind...
then you will found it is not really hard...
life is beautiful and colorful!!
don't just attention to the pain...

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