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Subject: Does she love me ma? Author: free [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 17:09:56 02/15/06 Wed Can anyone help me? I want to share my story with u. Eight years ago, I met a classmate in a college. §Ú¹ï¦o¥i¥H»¡¬O¤@¨£ÄÁ±¡¡Awe were always together and I didn't tell her. My feeling increased year by year. I also felt she had feeling on me, but I controlled myself, because I didn't want to affect our study. Then we worked. I tried to not find her, but I miss her much much. One day she called me, then we met again. On 14 Feb 2001, she gave me a gift--a heart shape of candle. Then I began to think, I told her or not. I waited for 1 year, on 14 Feb 2002 I told her my feeling. We are together for about 3 years. Actually we are very sweet and happy. During the year end of 2004 and the first half year of 2005, she always said to stop our relations, because she can't face the social pressure. She said she wants with me, but the reality can't with me.She said if I am a boy she will marry me. Now she try to with a boy who chase her for eight years together. She still always finds me.I feel that she is still happy when with me, Yesterday's valentine day, she not with me la. I am very hurt. I want to ask your opinion. She loves me ma? or she just cheats me? Wait for your reply! Thanks [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Does she love me ma? Author: rea [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:10:30 02/17/06 Fri >Can anyone help me? I want to share my story with u. >Eight years ago, I met a classmate in a college. >§Ú¹ï¦o¥i¥H»¡¬O¤@¨£ÄÁ±¡¡Awe were always together and I >didn't tell her. My feeling increased year by year. I >also felt she had feeling on me, but I controlled >myself, because I didn't want to affect our study. >Then we worked. I tried to not find her, but I miss >her much much. One day she called me, then we met >again. On 14 Feb 2001, she gave me a gift--a heart >shape of candle. Then I began to think, I told her or >not. I waited for 1 year, on 14 Feb 2002 I told her my >feeling. We are together for about 3 years. Actually >we are very sweet and happy. During the year end of >2004 and the first half year of 2005, she always said >to stop our relations, because she can't face the >social pressure. She said she wants with me, but the >reality can't with me.She said if I am a boy she will >marry me. Now she try to with a boy who chase her for >eight years together. She still always finds me.I feel >that she is still happy when with me, Yesterday's >valentine day, she not with me la. I am very hurt. I >want to ask your opinion. She loves me ma? or she just >cheats me? >Wait for your reply! >Thanks The answer is in your heart , only you can feel she is truly love you or not , In your mention I think she is loving you but she scare to face on the society. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Does she love me ma? Author: free [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:08:05 02/17/06 Fri >>Can anyone help me? I want to share my story with u. >>Eight years ago, I met a classmate in a college. >>§Ú¹ï¦o¥i¥H»¡¬O¤@¨£ÄÁ±¡¡Awe were always together and I >>didn't tell her. My feeling increased year by year. I >>also felt she had feeling on me, but I controlled >>myself, because I didn't want to affect our study. >>Then we worked. I tried to not find her, but I miss >>her much much. One day she called me, then we met >>again. On 14 Feb 2001, she gave me a gift--a heart >>shape of candle. Then I began to think, I told her or >>not. I waited for 1 year, on 14 Feb 2002 I told her my >>feeling. We are together for about 3 years. Actually >>we are very sweet and happy. During the year end of >>2004 and the first half year of 2005, she always said >>to stop our relations, because she can't face the >>social pressure. She said she wants with me, but the >>reality can't with me.She said if I am a boy she will >>marry me. Now she try to with a boy who chase her for >>eight years together. She still always finds me.I feel >>that she is still happy when with me, Yesterday's >>valentine day, she not with me la. I am very hurt. I >>want to ask your opinion. She loves me ma? or she just >>cheats me? >>Wait for your reply! >>Thanks > >The answer is in your heart , only you can feel she is >truly love you or not , In your mention I think she is >loving you but she scare to face on the society. Thanks your reply, I want to ask your opinion. She still always finds me, do I meet her or not? In my mind, when see her I feel sad, not see her I miss her. So what can I do? Thx [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Does she love me ma? Author: Walk-by [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:58:19 02/18/06 Sat Go for it! Life is yours and it is so hard to find the true love, especially both of you are having the same feeling on each other. Tell her what you think, what you want, what you feel and what you can or cannot do to keep her. If she still misses/loves you, tell her she also has to make an effort but not to drag on like this. Relationship is two-way. Good luck. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Does she love me ma? Author: free [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:28:49 02/19/06 Sun Thx ur reply! All u suggest I have done, but useless. Thus, I told her not to find me anymore on last week. I also wish her happy! >Go for it! Life is yours and it is so hard to find >the true love, especially both of you are having the >same feeling on each other. Tell her what you think, >what you want, what you feel and what you can or >cannot do to keep her. If she still misses/loves >you, tell her she also has to make an effort but not >to drag on like this. Relationship is two-way. Good >luck. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Does she love me ma? Author: dd [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:59:37 02/21/06 Tue find her and tell her how you feel about her and beg her to come back with you. If she can't, try to cool down yourself by isolate yourself from her for a while and move on with your life. You do what you can. Tell you what, I am not lesbian...I never have feelings for a girl...until...now I am with her...but I think she is just using me as a "lifesaver" in order to get over her feeling toward ex. I am living in pain now..I don't know what to do...I decided to let it cool a bit...if she called, we talk like nothing happen..if she is not going to call, we would end it like this.... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Does she love me ma? Author: free [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:44:58 02/21/06 Tue Thx for all of u's opinion! I really left her la. The passed year is my terrible dream. I wake up from the dream la, I will live better than before. Although there was some sadness between us, I will forget all the bad memory, I will remember all the sweet and happy times which we had. I wish all of u have a happy life! Tomorrow will better than now! >find her and tell her how you feel about her and beg >her to come back with you. If she can't, try to cool >down yourself by isolate yourself from her for a while >and move on with your life. You do what you can. Tell >you what, I am not lesbian...I never have feelings for >a girl...until...now I am with her...but I think she >is just using me as a "lifesaver" in order to get over >her feeling toward ex. I am living in pain now..I >don't know what to do...I decided to let it cool a >bit...if she called, we talk like nothing happen..if >she is not going to call, we would end it like this.... [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Does she love me ma? Author: Pearl [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:42:05 06/16/06 Fri You are so lucky to have a chance to try. I live in Bangkok. I was in Hongkong on Jun 7-11, 2006. I went to Armani Shop, in Tsim Sha Tsui, opposite of the Ocean Terminal. I met one TB. I have a crush on him (at first sight). However, I was too embrass to do anything. I can only talk to him as nothing happen. I didn't even get his name or anything. I came back to Bangkok now. But until now, I still miss him everyday. I only wish next time I am in Hongkong, he will still be there. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]