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Subject: 可否請指教

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Date Posted: 16:48:23 04/30/06 Sun

我現在的同事是一位TB,我是在四個月前轉工認識她的,她的為人很好,很關心我,很疼我,很遷就我,我們在復活節期間開始走在一起,但我很確自己不是TBG,但我很喜歡有人疼的感覺,所以我接受了她.但她已經有一位在同居兩年多的女朋友,他說她們經常吵架,最近一次那女生更半夜離家出走說要自殺,她很害怕,我叫她快找她回來哄她.
她們和好後這種感覺讓我很難受,我不知自己是否很愛她,有時她吻我,我並沒有太強烈的感覺,但也未致於反感,但我覺得她仍愛她女朋友,而我又未清楚自己的方向,所以我說不會強迫她們分手,只希望保持現狀.但最近我發現自己越來越吃醋,她說一些與她女朋友的事給我知時,我竟有討厭她女友的感覺,而當我聽到她致電她女友時,我竟有生氣的感覺.但我的家人是一定會反對的,而我又與她在外型上不相配,她女友是嬌小玲瓏型,而我比她高比她胖,我又不夠溫柔,她愛人乖巧聽話,但上述一切我都不是,那怎麼辦?這些日子我心情很複雜,想過多次說分開,但看到她又捨不得.
其實這也算是人生的一種經歷,我是否要開心的面對呢?大家在一起就是為了開心,幹嘛要自找煩惱,對嗎?
請問有誰可以教我該怎樣做呢?

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