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Subject: Re: whats the meanest thing (ie how bad can it get?)


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Brad
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Date Posted: 16:09:44 09/16/04 Thu
In reply to: Tammy 's message, "Re: whats the meanest thing (ie how bad can it get?)" on 22:57:03 08/31/04 Tue

That guy was uncool and wrong for not calling. He should at least call, be honest or act with some integrity. He should like you for you and if he's cool enough for the braces (which I'm sure he noticed) and your appearance otherwise, he should be cool for the headgear. Well that's my two cents anyway. Don't give up on the dating. Some guys don't mind or actually like braces or glasses or people that don't all look like starving models. It's not all about what's on the outside and nothing else. And difference really makes the world go 'round. I'm very glad not everyone looks like Brittney Spears or Jennifer Annison or...

Think of braces as a "filter" if you will. Cool people who can see through that and just "see you for you" likely are the kind of folks you want to deal with anyway.

Again, my 2 cents... and an unchecked moment of positive affirmation. Hehe.

Brad

>Let me start by saying I'm 22 and got braced up a year
>ago. I have all metal brackets because that's all I
>could afford. I was really self concious about it
>originally and I didn't go out or date for the first
>two months. I started going out again, but it was
>really embarrising everytime I went out with my
>girlfriends I would get stopped for my ID at the door,
>then the bartenders would inevitably ID me again cus
>they didn't believe I got the wristband. Anyway it
>took me about 3 months to find a man that didn't care
>I was living the nightmare of every teenager. We
>started dating (by dating I mean sleeping with each
>other). This went on for awhile till my next horror
>came - headgear. To make a long story short, one
>morning I woke up in my usual puddle of drool (damned
>headgear) and short a man that was in the bed the
>night before. He doesn't return my phone calls...and
>I don't go out anymore.

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