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Date Posted: 04:05:39 06/30/08 Mon
Author: Fion
Subject: To: 應孚

應孚, 一個很特別的稱呼, 從你的留言中我覺得有點親切感, 我是認識你的嗎? 嚴人嚴己的人?? 當然, 一個嚴人的人未必嚴己; 但一個嚴己的人, 多數都會嚴人; 但亦有例外. 因為在現實的環境中, 當你嚴己的同時想去嚴人的, 但發覺對方總是做不到的時候, 你就會放棄, 因為不要說同事朋友, 即使是你的子女, 也未必能夠做到你所要求的"嚴", 所以還是做好自己本分就算, 對人家的要求不要太多.

至於你說心存仇恨不是好事, 我絕對同意, 因為心存仇恨第一個受苦的人必然是自己, 但古人說"愛之深, 恨之切", 也有"因愛成恨"這句話, 當然愛一個人有很多種方式, 有些人覺得就是因為自己太愛對方才會恨, 或陰q前的我會是這樣的人, 可是現在的我絕對不是.

同意與人相處要慢慢學習, 但願我有這樣的時間和能耐吧. 謝謝你的留言.

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