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Subject: Re: Will the pain ever stop Author: jordantaylor [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 01:29:07 07/04/05 Mon In reply to: Laura 's message, "Will the pain ever stop" on 01:00:42 06/17/05 Fri Dear Laura, I was almost 16 years old when I had my abortion and like you my boyfriend couldn't have cared less about me or my abortion. I never told him until eighteen years later. I have spent the past eighteen years anesthesizing myself with drugs and alcohol and am just now scheduling an appointment with a crisis pregnancy center to get some post abortion counseling... Don't waste anymore of your life punishing yourself for your mistake. Your child wouldn't want you to do that! Your child loves you and wants to see you in heaven. Don't spend the next twenty years paying penance for the child you aborted.. like i have. Just know that someone that has been there cares about you.. I am 34 now with three children. God can restore what has been taken away. Just put your trust in him Love, Jordan's mom [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Will the pain ever stop Author: Erika [Edit] Date Posted: 01:19:14 07/16/05 Sat thats horrible, I feel so bad for you, I dont want to even begin to imagine how that would have felt, even thinking of it breaks my heart. It's obvious you need help, you know deep down you do, but i think above everything i dont think you should be trying for another baby, just not yet, as it would seem to me that it would be a replacement for the one you tragically lost. I seriously hope that you find so peace in your life