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Subject: Should i keep my baby Author: Emma [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:15:53 08/16/05 Tue Three weeks ago i was at a party and my drink got spiked with GHD, i didint know what had happened to me but knew i had woke up with no clothes on next to one of the lads, i had bruises all at the tops of my legs and pains down below, i asked what had happened and he just threatened me and said i agreeded to it so dont go to the police and that it werent him that spiked my drinks it was one of the other lads. I have today found out i am pregnant, i have wanted a baby for so long since i had an abortion 4 years ago, when i was just 16, but now i dont know what to do. I have not gone to the police or anything i have just been trying to get on with my life but i love this baby so much, but i have to see the lad every day as we live a few doors away from each other and i can not have him in my babies life and am scared what he would do if he did find out i was pregnant. i promised myself after my first abortion i would never do that again but now it has come to it i dont know what i should do. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Should i keep my baby Author: Kris [Edit] Date Posted: 22:12:40 08/16/05 Tue Dear Emma, Do you have family or supportive friends you can go to? You need some support here. I also want to urge you to call a Rape Crisis hotline - you use some terms that make me think you may be in the UK (?) - I would hope they have similar services there if so. You should try to move away - maybe with family (?) - but you shouldn't have to see this man daily and worry about your safety. I'm so sorry for what you are going through - boy are you brave! I'm also impressed that you want this baby - many women wouldn't - but it is an innocent life and should not pay the price for it's fathers crime. Please email me anytime - and post again. Kris

[> Subject: Re: Should i keep my baby Author: Diane Cheryl [Edit] Date Posted: 10:16:52 08/17/05 Wed Hi Emma.. Please email me. I would like to talk to you more than I can on here. My email address is DCHERYL51@yahoo.com Hope to hear from you soon.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Should i keep my baby Author: Diane Cheryl [Edit] Date Posted: 20:53:57 08/26/05 Fri Dear Emma.. Thanks for your latest post and I just saw it right now. Please email me so we can talk more. Or here is another forum you could join where you will get a lot of advice. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/unplanned_pregnancy_help/

[> [> [> [> Subject: Emma, please let us know! Author: Diane Cheryl [Edit] Date Posted: 22:32:42 09/13/05 Tue Hi Emma.. We would like to know how you are doing. Please post here or email me at DCHERYL51@yahoo.com Thanks.

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Emma, please let us know! Author: Emma [Edit] Date Posted: 03:45:33 09/21/05 Wed Hi Sorry i have not emailed i use my friends computor so dont have an email address of my own. I have decided i am going to keep my baby, i am still grieving for the baby i got rid of 4 years ago. I am staying where i am for now i will deal with the Father if/when he finds out its his. There is nothing he could do to hurt me that would be any where near the pain and emptiness i would feel without my baby. Thanks you for your help and support. Emma xx

[> Subject: Re: Should i keep my baby Author: Emma [Edit] Date Posted: 20:23:33 09/17/05 Sat Hi , sorry ive not emailed, i use my friedns computor so dont have an email address myself. I have decided i am keeping my baby. I want to thank you for your help and support. I'm not sure if i am staying where i live or moving yet that i am undecided about i will deal with that if/when he finds out. But i know i can not have another abortion, that pain would hurt me mor than he ever could. thanks Emma

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Should i keep my baby Author: Diane Cheryl [Edit] Date Posted: 22:12:11 10/20/05 Thu Hi Emma, please post again here or email me and let me know how you are. would like to keep in touch. Diane Cheryl DCHERYL51@yahoo.com

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Should i keep my baby Author: Diane Cheryl [Edit] Date Posted: 20:39:22 01/01/06 Sun Hi Emma.. So what happened? Let us know. Is there anything to be done? Love, Diane Cheryl