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Subject: Re: I can't do this Author: Debra [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 22:26:44 10/07/05 Fri In reply to: Candace 's message, "I can't do this" on 00:32:41 09/05/05 Mon Hi I'm 39, almost 40, I have two sons that are 17 amd 19. I was dating someone in December 2004 and became pregnant. After I became pregnant he disappeared and wouldn't answer or return my calls. I decided I couldn't have the abortion and told my sons and family. At the end of my third month, I got so scared, I didn't know how I would do it on my own, and I had an abortion. No one knows. I have not been the same since and I struggle ever day. October, if I had not had the abortion, my baby would be a year old. I wish I could go back, but I can't. I'm telling you my story after reading yours, so that you know that you are not alone. I don't the answer how to make it not hurt, but if you need a friend to talk to , I could use one too. Thanks Debra [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: I can't do this Author: hottrini [Edit] Date Posted: 23:00:08 10/15/05 Sat i am sorry to hear you are going through such a rough time with your post abortion and its even harder when you have no one to talk to but you have to forgive your self for it if you cannot do that then how do you expect god or anyone else to you have to stay strong for your own health the important thing is, is that you feel sorry for what you did you feel remorse and you can connect with god on that level god knows your pain and he will be there for you if you let him and he will forgive you but you also have to forgive your self because think about it he already knew what was going to happen so its time to heal your heart and your soul forgiveness is there you just have to take it.