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Subject: hello Author: Dee [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 20:12:48 10/05/04 Tue Hello, i am coping after my abortion that I had last friday. im in that state of regret, grief, mourning, anger, and all in all just depressed. I do not know how to deal with it. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: hello Author: CPRogers [Edit] Date Posted: 22:40:37 10/09/04 Sat I am going through the same thing. I feel so empty and I cry all the time- especially when I am alone. The other night I cried myself to sleep and woke up with puffy eyes- when I go to work I do not think about it- but everytime I look at my students ( I am a teacher) I always wonder if my child would have the personality of josh or amber or whomever. That's when I start to feel the pain in my heart and the isolation. I feel like a zombie. I am 31 and I had the abortion because I am not married -- and the father is a drunk and crazy as hell. He would have harrassed me and the child for the rest of my life so at a moment of weakness I decided to have the abortion. Now I am regretting it- I know I would have made a wonderful mother- even a single mom if I had to. I just don't know. I hope you start to feel better; I really do because I do know the pain you are going through.

[> [> Subject: Re: hello Author: Vickie [Edit] Date Posted: 21:58:08 10/16/04 Sat Ladies, I so feel your pain. healing is possible. I am here if you want to talk. Vickie