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Subject: Abortion Author: Tina [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 00:55:20 02/11/05 Fri Just last weekend I got an abortion. The date was Feb/05/05. So it was not to long ago at all. My boyfriend and I where using protection and I was on birth control. Till then I found out I was pregnant. I was so happy. So was my boyfriend. Him and I both wanted to keep the baby. His parents said no.His parents would not allow it because we where not married yet. They told us they would give us the money to go and get it done.I couldnt handle it. So i started to cry. I didnt want to get it done at all. Then my boyfriend said I should tell my parents. They might help us.I asked him what was he thinking your 21 and im only 18 yes im still young where both still very young.I told him do you think my parents would let me keep the baby? no. So I got it done. I dont remember anything that day i was really drugged. I know when I woke up i dropped to the ground crying my eyes off.My boyfriend picked me up and we both started to cry together. His parents started to cry also. I have been sad and feeling empty inside. I cry myself to sleep every night and tell my self im a bad person for killing my baby. Then I would ask my self if it would of made any diffrence if my parents both knew. I wouldnt know because I never told them and they still dont know. Its been mostly hard on me though. I had the baby inside of me I had to go threw everything. IM so depressed. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Abortion Author: Kris [Edit] Date Posted: 10:08:33 02/11/05 Fri Dear Tina, I am so sorry you are hurting so much. Please look up a center here : http://www.optionline.org/locate.html Most all of them will have some post abortion counseling you can attend and I stronlgy encourage you to try that. You can also look here and find some help to healing from this. http://www.safehavenministries.com/ I will keep you in my prayers Tina.

[> [> Subject: Re: Abortion Author: Vickie [Edit] Date Posted: 09:44:50 02/16/05 Wed I have to say ditto to what Tina said. I would strongly suggest you getting post abortive support. Also I think I would seriously consider telling your parents.. when you feel the time is right. WE are here for you Vickie

[> [> Subject: Re: Abortion Author: Vickie [Edit] Date Posted: 09:46:47 02/16/05 Wed got the name wrong i meant to say Kris.. not ditto on what Tina said... I was looking at the wrong name sorry