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Subject: Re: Constant Pain Author: Kris [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 07:26:13 02/21/05 Mon In reply to: Callie 's message, "Constant Pain" on 00:14:47 02/16/05 Wed http://www.safehavenministries.com/ Dear Callie, I am so sorry for the pain you are feeling right now. I read your post and just cried. I wish I could just hug you and tell you everything will be OK. Please go to the website listed above - I think you will find the path to some healing there. You do need to grieve and heal from this experience, wanting antoher baby is part of the grief your already feeling - but it won't really fill the void. Forgive yourself - Love, Kris [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Constant Pain Author: Pat [Edit] Date Posted: 22:02:07 02/21/05 Mon Callie, I am so sorry! You really do need to talk to some people who really love and care about you and can help you through this dark time. We are here and we care. And there are local crisis pregnancy agencies that can help you with counseling and other programs. You might want also to go on a retreat. I'm make Kris's link clickable for you. They're a good site. http://www.safehavenministries.com What you are feeling now that you are describing is the need to have a replacement baby. The problem with this is that another baby won't replace the one you aborted, and the reasons why you had the abortion would still be there. Your mother would still probably pressure you. So it's not wise to do this. Instead, work on healing your emotions, so that when the time comes for motherhood, you will be ready. Please come back and post, and let us talk to you. Hugs, Pat