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[> Subject: Re: Suppose to get an abortion
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Kris
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Date Posted: 15:59:17 03/03/05 Thu
Dear Jackie,
Hang in there, it's always darkest before the dawn! I really feel for you - if you look at the two children you already have, could you have aborted either one of them? Can you pick one you would no longer want & one you would keep? You also have to look 20 years down the road and think out what that will be like. Maybe you're better off without either guy in your life right now and just focusing on you and your children. Somewhere down the road one or the other is bound to come to his senses. I can tell you this, nearly 100% of the time an abortion wrecks a relationship like nothing else. So, that's not the answer, no matter what the "Daddy" thinks right now (yeah, like maybe he's thinking child support payments for 18 years). So, hang tough - there's help out there for you - you can check this website for a center near you that will provide baby clothes/supplies and emotional support (most all of them will have that - but not all):
http://www.pregnancycenters.org/locate.html
If you have some supportive family memebers, stick close to them and lean on them to get you through this time. There's another lady that posts here named Tanya and if you go back and read some of her posts it may help you. She was in a somewhat similar situation - she had a b/f that was adamant she not have his baby - but she saw it through and now he's so in love with that child, and so is Tanya.
You can email if you'd like to "talk" some more! I'm glad you posted here, you will find support from the others that are here.
Kris
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Re: Suppose to get an abortion