Yes, she knew exactly what she was doing. She was going to get laid. And it's not about consenting adults or an honest friendship or anything like that. She whines about her life having no direction, yet the only direction she seems interested right now is the direction of John's wang. I don't think Blair is getting anything positive out of this. And at this point, I'm thinking it serves her right for insisting on playing the same damn game every single time. -- The Official Kassie DePaiva Message Board

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Date Posted: 11:36:22 07/24/08 Thu
Author: Dandesun
Subject: Yes, she knew exactly what she was doing. She was going to get laid. And it's not about consenting adults or an honest friendship or anything like that. She whines about her life having no direction, yet the only direction she seems interested right now is the direction of John's wang. I don't think Blair is getting anything positive out of this. And at this point, I'm thinking it serves her right for insisting on playing the same damn game every single time.
In reply to: tonya 's message, "Looks to me my girl knew full well, at least in the back of her mind, what she was doing today. The way her and John are looking at each other makes it obvious they are feeling the same thing. I love the look they gave each other when she said she was lying and went there to see him." on 10:56:15 07/24/08 Thu

I don't consider John/Blair an honest healthy relationship that's good for Blair. I see it as nothing more than a PLOT POINT.

And worst of all is this 'tee hee! well, at least you're talking about it' mentality. Like, it doesn't matter how badly Blair gets crapped on as long as we howl about it.

This does Blair no favors. I can only wonder what everyone's reaction is going to be when John dumps Blair for Marty... will we still be celebrating their beautiful honest friendship then? Or will this get called what it is? Blair setting herself up again because sex is all she seems to know how to do anymore?

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[> [> The sad this is that Blair said everything that I wanted her to say- she is lost, wants to be someone again, wants to be proud of who she is. Then she is going to have sex with John and everything she just said is meaningless!! Booty calls do not equal growth or adult relationships!! If John really respected Blair he would tell her that sex isn't the answer. -- Heather, 11:48:20 07/24/08 Thu

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[> [> [> It's all so sad. And so predictable. Remember a month or so ago when I guessed that Blair would immediately have sex with John because he was there and available? People were like - you don't know that, stop saying that, when is this supposed sex gonna happen. Well, turns out I did know it and I didn't even have an early script. It's always the same with Blair. -- Cathy, 17:49:53 07/24/08 Thu

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[> [> [> [> It's not always the same with Blair. I do not have any issues with Blair having sex to numb her pain. That is Blair. Not owning it and making it about her gratification is NOT. She could have walked into that room and thrown John on the bed and had her way with him, and I would have loved it. But Blair mewing to John about how wounded she is, then looking at him entreatingly and hoping for affirmation is NOT BLAIR!!!! -- Trudi, 20:00:45 07/24/08 Thu

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[> [> Oh I wouldn't be so sure Blair isn't going to get a positive out of this...she's gonna catch a positive case of barnacles..lice and crustaceans...Seriously know does Blair actually think she is about to find the meaning of life and sorting her self out in between flicking off the fleas rolling around with that mangy dickwad...You would think a girl who always has her head in fairytales would have higher aspiration. -- sluva, 11:51:03 07/24/08 Thu

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[> [> Dande I don't see Blair falling in love with John right now, and if she does and Marty comes back... then we will see what happens. Right now I am going to enjoy the time they are getting. I see it different than you and there is nothing wrong with either opinion... they are just different. I love the respect he is giving Blair and that he cares enough to listen to her feelings and that she feels comfortable enough to talk to him about them. -- tonya, 16:54:14 07/24/08 Thu

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[> [> You know, I would have been fine with these scenes if it was just about Blair going and getting what she wants. I don't care if she just wants sex. Or just wants to forget. Or just wants whatever she needs at the moment. -- Trudi, 18:08:07 07/24/08 Thu

But Blair showing up all defeated and vulnerable just doesn't work for me. I would love for Blair to wake up in the morning and say "Thanks! That was great. Just what I needed." and that be it. And let John feel used.

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[> [> [> I... could actually deal with that. I mean, I wish Blair wouldn't wallow in the Greasening but if she was totally mercenary about it that might be something I could get behind. I get that she doesn't know who she is but this... isn't answering that. This comes off to me as "I don't know who I am... validate me, please!" I'd rather it be something else. -- Dandesun, 18:28:37 07/24/08 Thu

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[> [> [> [> I knew we could find some middle ground. I just hate that this is about Blair in a state of weakness. If she were taking command of her life, her next steps and this was just a step along the way? I'd be great. But the handwriting is already on the wall. She's there because she doesn't have anyone else. And she and John are expressing themselves in their usual nonverbal way. This could actually be good if it was about Blair, being Blair. But as long as it's about McBain being McBain? ZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz -- Trudi, 18:33:42 07/24/08 Thu

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