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Date Posted: 16:24:00 07/24/08 Thu
Author: sparklebarbie
Subject: I loved how heartbreaking honest and open Blair was today with John. (click to read more a very long post on my observation's of Blair's behavior today)
In reply to: tonya 's message, "Looks to me my girl knew full well, at least in the back of her mind, what she was doing today. The way her and John are looking at each other makes it obvious they are feeling the same thing. I love the look they gave each other when she said she was lying and went there to see him." on 10:56:15 07/24/08 Thu

Late at night with her kids asleep, the loneliness become too much for Blair which is understandable knowing being alone has always been Blair's biggest fear so she went to talk to a friend who has always told her ever since the downfall of Doctor Truman that whenever she wants to talk about anything he is there to listen, and Blair talked.

She talked about Dorian's house being so big and beautiful, but at the same time, it can also be very quiet and lonely place so she had to get out for alittle bit. Blair said she went to John because she wanted to have an adult conversation, and I believe her.

Todd is a man-child. She has her children who are always her main priority, but with the exception of John, she has had no adult interaction. Sadly, all the other adults in Blair's life are too busy with their own stuff.

Blair said she wanted an adult conversation, but I really think she just wanted to talk, and have someone just listen her ramble about everything through her mind without passing judgment on her.

I thought it was really sweet when Blair was telling John how sometimes Dorian's house feels so big and empty, but then, tonight she just couldn't get enough air, the light bulb immediately went off for John, and he got a couple of glasses along with a bottle of whisky and took Blair to the roof to get some air. I was just taken aback by John's sensitivity to what Blair was feeling, and I think Blair was too. Unfortunately, Blair is not used to having people actually listening to her like really listen to her.

On the rooftop, again Blair did the talking and John along with the viewers did the listening. She straight out asked John, what he would do without his job, and my heart already began to sink alittle because I knew where Blair was going with her line of questioning. John did not get she was asking so he answered that he didn't know because his job was all he had, and it gave him a reason to get up in the morning. Blair shot back that it beats lying awake at night, wondering, if your life has any meaning, and at that moment I knew that Blair was talking about herself.

Of course, she said that her kids give her meaning everyday, but it was a long time since she has actually been proud of something she did. John asked the question that was on my mind which was when was last time Blair felt proud of herself, and Blair replied when she was a reporter which surprised because I did not know that being a reporter had meant so much to Blair.

I soon realized why I did not know being a reporter meant so much to Blair because Blair confessed to John that over the years, Blair has spent so much time being somebody to somebody else that she does not know who she is anymore. It was so true and so sad.

I can not to see Blair rediscover herself again, and learn all over again who she is.

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[> [> Love your post Lucy! Great insight! -- tonya, 16:59:20 07/24/08 Thu

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[> [> [> thanks Tonya and Cammie, glad you enjoyed my ramblings, sometimes i do have my moments, I just loved Ron Carlivati giving us a glimpse into what was going through Blair's mind. I am curious to see if Blair will ask Viki for a job at The Banner. Blair was one of the best reporters around. I think Viki would hire her in second, but it would probably piss off Dorian to know Blair will be working for Viki...lol. -- sparklebarbie, 18:50:45 07/24/08 Thu

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[> [> John drinking whiskey is sensitive? Right. Again. John not talking is not the same as really listening. Once a response is required, we know what will happen. My problem isn't Blair. Who I love. My problem is Blair is being dilluted so John McBain can exist in her blazing inferno. She's whiny and weak and so vulnerable. Like EVERY woman John has ever been with. -- Trudi, 18:17:57 07/24/08 Thu

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[> [> Re: I loved how heartbreaking honest and open Blair was today with John. (click to read more a very long post on my observation's of Blair's behavior today) -- Sheree, 09:41:14 07/26/08 Sat

I would LOVE to see Blair become the City Editor of the BANNER. I'm glad she finally admitted that she's been abused by Todd.

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