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Date Posted: 21:43:28 04/22/03 Tue
Author: marshun(Martha)
Subject: OKay ladies...here is where I am at in my mind.......more

I am going to go ahead with the plans we have had for moving. I know there is a lot of things that do not sound right about it, but these are my thoughts.

Here in Virginia, neither one of us has any family. When we move back to Birmingham, we are near DH's family(in the same town) and I am only 4 hours away from one of my brothers. I am going to give DH a chance because I think I need to do this. yes, I do understand about enabling and co-dependancy. If DH's use continues and starts to escalate or if I see a crash on the way........I will have to break this whole thing and head home.

I am doing this for a few reasons, one is the proximity to my family once the move is done. The second and formost in my heart is the proximity of DH to HIS family. if we leave, I want to make sure the help is there if he should except it. If I left while we are living here, he would have no one and nothing. Yes, I understand it would be HIS doing that the outcome was like that.

I can't help thinking back to how I was raised and to how I have always felt(I now know, after reading the Bible cover to cover that it comes from there) but I believe I am no more important than anyone else...I never have......I also was raised to "Do unto others as you would have them Do unto you". For that basic principle, I can not leave him here with nothing. I have to give him the option and I may even just relocate temporarily to Knoxville...only four hours away from Birmingham.

That is where my thoughts are, I am going to try and push for a claims service rep with a local insurance agency(Geico). They have openings and the position should be three shifts, allowing me to work the schedule I am wanting for here. If I can get my foot in the door with that type of career, it would give me a new chance in life. Something that would not be the crazy hours, but hopefully close to the money I have been earning.

If You have some prayers to spare...PLEASE...pray that this is the opportunity that God had in mind for me. It may be JUST what I need to get through all of this..........

Cyber Hugs,
Martha

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