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Date Posted: 17:08:53 11/22/08 Sat
Author: EC
Subject: Click or not Click, Now or Forever

This is a sense of connection.

Some friends, I have known forever, way before I know who I am. They are part of your development. Nth can substitute their roles in my life. We can just simply point out each other wrongs without hesitation because I know we will be friend forever. These kinda of friends, I dun even know whether we click or not. It just happened. Not really based on my choice. They are just there and forever there. Maybe I can even say, the relationship is somehow in btw friendship and family.

When I grow up, I start meeting new friends when I kinda know who I am. This is when the strong sense of "clickness" kicked in. Sometimes, I know it's click. Sometimes I just know it's not. Yet, most of the time, I know I can only click to certain degree. And with a very small chance, I can totally click with someone, as if I find my treasure.

My friendship with all unavoidably changes due to my constant relocation. I dun even know how to explain. On one hand, I meet new friends and have a new social web whenever I go. They are those who really knows what's going in my life at the moment. Yet, I sometimes keep asking how many I will keep in touch if I relocate again. On another hand, I have friends whom I have known forever and we just have a very solid foundation regardless where I am. Yet, they may not know what is going in my life now.

Kinda ironic.

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