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Date Posted:13:53:43 09/28/09 Mon Author Host/IP: pool-71-178-211-220.washdc.east.verizon.net/71.178.211.220
Leslie,
All that is ever required is that we be true to ourselves. It doesn't come easy, and in many cases it takes many years to find one's stride. We listen to the bs, we listen to the adulation,we listen to the voices in our head, playing the same messages and causing chaos and confusion. Somewhere in there we figure out (usually with help) who we are. You are in such a position (you have been for a long time) where people will tell you what they think you want to hear. The very cool thing about it all now...is that you control all of this because you are strong and defiant and brave and you. Yeah, you know who you are and who you are is rather lovely. Be well.