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Date Posted: 21:34:10 10/08/03 Wed
Author: raecae
Author Host/IP: 65.34.72.89
Subject: please help!
I need a bunch of help. If someone could PLEASE read this post.. I'll put it in an extra friendly format lol!
I have a boyfriend; his name is Dakota.
I've gone out with him 3 times (this is my third time!)
I don't know why, but it seems to last for about two weeks and then "it" is gone for me and I dump him.
He is the first boy to kiss me (cheek) and hug me, and I really like it lol.
I like him, and he is very sweet and caring.. but..
It's not really there anymore.
I'll tell you why.
I have liked this boy Mark, for like two months (!) but I never told a soul.
Yesterday, Mark said that he liked Tanya, and she SAID that she liked him but I don't think she really does.
What she said was "I kinda like you but you need to stop acting like such a b*tch" which I thought was REALLY rude.
I think she just wants attention and a boyfriend.
He says that he's going to ask her out soon.
I don't want them to go out.. I like him a lot.
But I also have a boyfriend.
Should I dump him?
A lot of good that would do me, huh?
My crush of 2 months chasing after someone who doesn't even like him..
Me stuck with a boyfriend who doesn't do anything romantically for me..
I want to have my first kiss and Dakota WILL do it..
But do I want it to be with him?
And how am I going to deal with Mark and Tanya dating?
What do I DO?
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- dont hurt ur boyfriend! please, if u ever decide to leave him, do it gently! i kno how much it can hurt. n mite i add - ur very lucki hes goin out with u again n again, not many ppl i kno would do that. b considerate of his feelings, and bout the first kiss, thas totally ur choice - no one can make it for u. n how to deal with them datin - b happy for them, it may hurt, n even if she doesnt like him, theres nothin u can do newayz is there? sorry if im not very helpful >.< best wishes!! (NT) -- Laura, 21:41:17 10/08/03 Wed
All of us want to date a movie star, pop star etc. You end with someone who lives around you someday. He isn't your top choice but you still love him. Corey,my bf isn't exactly my top choice. Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom or Elijah Wood would maybe be my top choice lol. The thing is I love Corey no matter what since I don't know what kind of a bf Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom or Elijah Wood are. If I did have the chance I wouldn't take it. Since it may become dating them for nothing when I have the world in my hands already. Just like my mom and dad. My mom likes Antonia Banderas. But she doesn't want to take the chance if she had one with him because she knows she loves my dad. (NT) -- Zelnixie (I hope my thoughts and my mother's thoughts will be helpful to you), 22:11:18 10/08/03 Wed
- How do you know this Mark is better for you than your boyfriend?Maybe the *it* is there but all your thoughts about Mark just don't let you see it. If your boyfriend doesn't understand your want for romance,then try making some yourself. Talk to him. Tell him the *it* feeling is gone and that will surely call his attention ;) And...if you feel bad for Mark,try talking to him too. Tell him what you know about this Tanya girl,but in my opinion,if you really want you and your boyfriend to last,maybe you should try thinking more about him and what he feels. Talk to ya later,hon and I hope this works out for you <3 (NT) -- Sango, 18:35:02 10/10/03 Fri