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Date Posted: 17:20:15 01/23/06 Mon
Author: julie
Subject: Re: how do you know when to make a move?
In reply to: fluffy 's message, "Re: how do you know when to make a move?" on 10:36:49 01/19/06 Thu

hi fluffly,
well let's just say that it sucks to be in the position we both are in, and I'm still not too sure as to what I'm supposed to do.
Nothing has really changed between us two in the sense that we're getting somewhere with eachothers feelings etc. It's been stagnant for the most part.
We both play on a competetive provincial soccer team, and I have recently dislocated my knee for the second time and have not seen her for a long time...Therefore I am sorry to say that I haven't really had the opportunity to talk to her as we are both very busy...But as for the gay films thing you mentioned that did spark a flashback, as I do remember watching her as we watched that scene in the OC of two lesbians, and I remember her trying her hardest not to show anything that she could've been feeling because it was obviously not successful.. I could tell she felt uncomfrotable, and who knows, maybe that's a sign that I'm a bit closer to the truth about what kind of person she is when it comes to her sexual orientation.
Anyway, in about a month I'll be all healed up (hopefully my knee wont dislocate first game back like it did last time) and this summer I'll be spending alot of time with her so who knows what will happen. That's for fate to decide I guess...But I do know I'll try my hardest in terms of reaching my goal, which is her..
Thanks for writing to me and goodluck to you too

julie



>Hi Julie in much the same situation as you. I dont
>know what to do either. Try little clues but must be
>very obscure. I dont want to get hurt and it could
>make things very awkward as or if the cat is let out
>of the bag so to speak. Let her work it out for
>herself then at least she'd then have some thinking
>time to know what shes gonna do.
>I will probably make a compete ass out of myself
>eventually but i aint doing that unless she really
>cant work it out for herself. Its just the fact that i
>dont know if she can handle the enormity of it can
>your lady? Try dummy runs whats her view on gay films.
>How tactile is she with female mates etc? Try it let
>me know what happens.Fluffy.

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