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Subject: man 4man

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Jim

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Date Posted: 14:31:38 09/11/11 Sun

Felling like a leper just came to a head and I almost freaked out from the loneliness, I rarely tell anybody because of the reaction even from friends. I do have one friend that is supportive but it would be nice to have somebody to snuggle with and be intimate again. I have gone on several dates but it always ends the same, they are very interested but when I tell them about HEP C they shut down slowly and then I just back away feeling bad. I believe in telling any prospective mates even though they usually back away.I hate to say that HEP C has also effected my self esteem and mind to a large degree so I decided to start the meds in hopes of dating once again before I'm too old. The meds are a bear to take but so far I'm sticking it out with hopes of a better life.
I'm 57, not bad looking for my age but time is marching on and I'd like to do march holding another hand once and awhile, maybe something permanent.

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Tricia
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Date Posted: 05:19:11 01/29/12 Sun

>Felling like a leper just came to a head and I almost
>freaked out from the loneliness, I rarely tell anybody
>because of the reaction even from friends. I do have
>one friend that is supportive but it would be nice to
>have somebody to snuggle with and be intimate again. I
>have gone on several dates but it always ends the
>same, they are very interested but when I tell them
>about HEP C they shut down slowly and then I just back
>away feeling bad. I believe in telling any prospective
>mates even though they usually back away.I hate to say
>that HEP C has also effected my self esteem and mind
>to a large degree so I decided to start the meds in
>hopes of dating once again before I'm too old. The
>meds are a bear to take but so far I'm sticking it out
>with hopes of a better life.
>I'm 57, not bad looking for my age but time is
>marching on and I'd like to do march holding another
>hand once and awhile, maybe something permanent.
Hi Jim,
Just wanted to say that I know exactly how you feel. I have kept my condition a secret for many years. Only a few very close friends know. Its been a long time since I had someone to "cuddle" with and I really do miss that part of life. Now I just started the med treatment with hopes that at my vintage age of 61, I could find some romance again. Lets keep hoping for the best!

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