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Subject: 我對"家長"兄/姊的回應


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以利達
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Date Posted: 02:17:15 04/21/05 Thu
In reply to: HQF 's message, "ikkۻy--@ӦPӫH{O(20050104)j" on 19:26:44 01/04/05 Tue

多謝你的勸導,其實除了兄/姊(我假設你大過我啦~ 哈) 所引的,基督教內對此議題亦有不同看法和意見。兄/姊除了去明光社、性文化學會網站外,也可以到:



www.bmcf.org.hk (基恩之家)



http://www.hkci.org.hk/(基督徒學會)







至於,你說到「如果同性戀晋及化後先對家長來說,看到自已一手苦養大的子女若感染變成同性戀者,對家長的心是何等的傷痛!」,這一點真是人言人殊,我自己認識一些家長,他們對他們的子女是同性戀者是不抗拒的,只要他們用心生活、用心愛人和用心幹活就可以了。



我自己也認識一些向父母表白自己為同志的朋友,一些父母確實是接受不了的,這一點在白先勇的小說<<孽子>>已有清晰的描述。也請為香港的同志父母親家人祈禱吧。







我對立法與否較為站於 黃文所說的"5.2-5.8"的態度。不過有一點可以再說的是:如果在"反性傾向歧視法"和"反種族歧視法"之一只能二選其一,我會選擇後者。因為真正的公義,是犧牲自己的利益,而成全另一個社群。







香港超過90%都是華人,南亞朋友的教育、就業常受歧視,未能溶入社區,假設此條條例通過,定必要香港政府以我們的(納稅人的)錢去推行相關反歧視教育,這一點,在於利害,是對我這個華人納稅人有損的,但,我願意。







最後,如你有什麼問題要找我,可以到以下版面留言哦:(因為這兒不是"吹水版")



http://www.voy.com/174951/



願你平安,如你有子女,亦願他們平安



你的弟兄



以利達 上

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