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| Subject: What is sensuality, how can we promote it? | |
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Author: John |
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Date Posted: 18:21:42 04/11/05 Mon I don't pretend that I speak for everyone on the topic of sensuality, but I will give you my take on it and how I hope to spread it througout our society. I feel sensuality is the connection of sexual, seductive, loving, nuturing, and playful energy between people. A lot of people look at sensuality as just sex. To be honest, most sex probably lacks sensuality, because if you can;t be sensual with people on a much simpler level, how can you be sensual with someone on a higher level such as sex. One of my goals is to bring people closer together through sensuality and promote natural human behavior accociated with our sexual, seductive, loving, nuturing and playful sides. Sensuality can exist on many levels. Most people think it starts and stops with their lover or partner. This is one reason why people have distanced themselves so much from the rest of the world. We can be senusal with strangers, family, friends, lovers, co-workers, and anyother person you can think of in your life. Most importantly with yourself. One thing I have discovered on my path towards a more sensual lifestyle is a non-ownership rule, which most people like to adopt. A non-ownership rule, is to be consciously aware that you are being respectful of other peoples freedom of being themselves. That you are not taking responsibility of their action or trying to control them. That you allow them to be 100% themselves and understand that they are an individual human being with their own needs, and desires just like yourself. The reason this rule is so effective in creating a sensual lifestyle is that it allows us to go beyond ourselves and turn our focus onto others. When we take an "ownership" role in anytype of relationship we are taking focus off the other person and putting it on ourselves creating a barrier and becoming unable to achieve a truly sensual expereince with the other person. A few easy ways to become more sensual with everyday experiences are making more eye contact with people; taking the time to listen not speak; not being afraid to hold, hug, or kiss people, and sharing your own feelings, thoughts and ideas with others. The big message that needs to be sent out is better communication. Not just oraly, but physically and emotionally. As humans we all desire to be heard, touched, loved, appreciated and want to do the same for others. Unfortunatly many of us are either unwilling or not given the chance to do so. I hope this gives you a better idea of what I am trying to accomplish and how I choose to life my life. Thanks. :) [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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| The discovery of sensuality as the same as being a sentient being | sentient one | 22:39:37 04/11/05 Mon |
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