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Date Posted: 05:50:33 10/16/02 Wed
Author: Damien
Subject: BIG HELP

i am 17 years old, and there is this girl i have like for over a year now, but the problem is she is only 13.5 years old. But it's not all bad, my two aunties are married to her two uncles, so essentially where not related, but we do know eachother very well, and have done so for a long time. But the thing is, that at one time she really liked me, but now it feels as though she has 1 day on liking me, then 1 day off. I don't know why. But when we do meet at various occassions, she hangs out with all her friends, so i find it difficult to talk to her. but just when u thought this problem was big enough. There's also another boy, 14 years of age, who also knows this girl as well as i do if not better. The thing is she obviously thinks he is the hottest thing since the sun was made, but she seems to toss up between me and him. But because i really like her, i just couldn't and wouldn't do anything to make her feel down, or hurt her, so i talk to her and flirt as much as i can, because i'm a funny guy and really athletic as she is. But this guy, 14, is able to hit her in a friendly way, but still a fairly decent hit, abuse her, and at other times, is really open in saying that u are really good looking, and u are a hot girl. She obviously responds well to the latter, but sometimes she responds well to the former, which i find disturbing. To make things worse, various other girls where we meet, of various older ages, up to 16 all hug and kiss him in front of everyone, and i think the girl i like gets jealous, and likes him more, and me, am left like an idiot on the side. With me off to college next year, i will not be able to see her, and i'm afraid what little flame we have will be extinguished. but maybe not. What the hell should i do, now, wait it out? continue dropping her hints until she is a little older? i don't know. From university hopefully i will have access to her sister's chat program, who i might be able to talk to, from there she might use it and i may be able to talk to her, thus not extinguishing all contact with eachother. As u can see i need a lot of help! please....

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