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Date Posted: 10:15:53 06/05/02 Wed
Author: Liz
Subject:

I think my ex is my soulmate

I am soooooooooooo confused. I've have been with this guy for 6 years and we have been living together for 1 and 1/2 years. He is great! We get along great, he treats me good. Basically there is no problem at all. Its getting to the point where we may be getting married soon. My problem is, I can't stop thinking about my ex. Its terrible. I can honestly say that I think about him every single day. He lives in the same area as far as I know and when ever I'm driving around I look for his car, when I go to the store I hope I will run into him, when I pass by his old job I look in the window to see if he's there. A part of me thinks that he is my soul mate and that I should be with him instead of my boyfriend. My boyfriend looks into my eyes sometimes and tells me he's looking for something, I can always tell that what ever he's looking for he's not finding it. I remember looking into my ex boyfriends eyes and having a feeling of completeness that I don't find with my boyfriend now. I would usually just break it off with my boyfriend and try my chances with the ex, You only live once. But its so much more complicated than that. My boyfriend and I are really serious. He has a daughter who I have become close to, and we depend on each other financially also, basically we are married already. I would feel awful just leaving him for someone else, but I feel like if I don't, I will end up getting married and wondering for the rest of my life what would have happened if I would have called my ex. Another problem is that I have not really spoken to my ex in like seven years. He has no idea that I feel this way, I don't know if he thinks about me at all, he might have a girlfriend who he is in love with for all I know. One thing that gives me hope is that once my current boyfriend and I broke up and I went and stayed with a girlfriend of mine for about a week. I thought it was over between my boyfriend and I and decided to call my ex boyfriend. I went ahead and gave him a call, he was still at the same job luckily for me and he sounded happy to hear from me. We gave each other updates on our family's, but we could not meet because he was going out of town. I told him I would give him my number and he could call me when he got back, if he wanted to. He called me about a month later and when I got the call I was back with my boyfriend and he was standing right next to me. I told my ex that it was not good that he was calling me and hung up the phone:/ It's been about 4 months since then and I still think about him constantly. I think I would rather take a chance and loose everything instead of living the rest of my life not knowing what could have happened. I am stuck in a really bad situation. Please give me some advice. tell me if I'm crazy and should just stop fanaticizing about my teenage love.

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Replies:

Re: I think my ex is my soulmate -- Also Confused, 12:43:53 06/07/02 Fri
- Re: I think my ex is my soulmate -- Liz, 16:56:27 06/07/02 Fri
- Re: I think my ex is my soulmate -- Gene, 05:49:45 09/12/02 Thu
Re: I think my ex is my soulmate -- Nina, 07:03:18 08/08/02 Thu
Re: I think my ex is my soulmate -- Casey, 14:00:34 08/27/02 Tue
Re: I think my ex is my soulmate -- mykell, 05:57:39 09/18/02 Wed
Re: I think my ex is my soulmate -- d, 10:08:16 10/07/02 Mon
- Re: I think my ex is my soulmate -- Stella, 13:39:33 10/09/02 Wed
i want my ex back -- kelly, 02:34:19 10/16/02 Wed

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