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Date Posted: 10/18/05 11:23pm
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's message, "Re: Andrew" on 10/18/05 3:08pm
Hi, Andrew
I really appreciate your friendship with Carla. I mean, I'm very glad that she has someone like you in her life. It gives me a great deal of peace to know that if anything ever happened to me, or if for whatever reason I couldn't be with her at a time of personal crisis, you would be there for her. And that's what bff's are for, right?
I think that I've been really respectful of how much the two of you mean to each other. Whereas a typical man would've kicked your ass for even *thinking* of staying in his fiancee's home, when he wasn't there, I have been really cool about it. I haven't hassled you and I trust Carla, so I really didn't have a problem with it, even if it meant that neighbors and others would whisper. Sometimes a sim just needs time with his/her friend alone and that's cool.
So, I jsut want you to know that even though I want to become better friends with you and get to know you more, and even though I want you to remain bff's with my wife, I will have a problem when you call and wake us up at 6 am. I know that you thought it would be a sweet gesture and all that, but even on her birthday, don't do it, Brah. We're sleeping together, in the same bed, and I dont' really like to be woken up so early.
Second, I'm going to have a problem with you if you give her any more jewelry. As a man, I'm sure that jewelry is a very intimate gift. It's something you give your gf, not your married bff. I would never dream of doing that with Bri, unless I wanted to start an affair with her. It's tantamount to giving a woman lingerie or panties. The necklace you gave her is beautiful and she really did love it, but from now on, that's got to be my job, capiche?
Last thing, a little flirt here and there is not a problem. Calling her a pet name, not a problem. Giving a freindly hug where the hands don't go below the waist and there is at least 6" between your torso and hers, not a problem. Touching her hair? problem. Moving a whisp of hair off her face? problem. Giving a foot or backrub? problem. Taking her to dinner or a movie? Not a problem. See what I'm saying? It's all about not crossing the line, Brah and as long as we all remember where that line is, then we can all stay good friends and not have any problems.
Like I said, I've been really cool about alot of things that most guys wouldn't put up with and that's because I really understand your relationship with Carla. I GET IT. You know what I mean? Because I'm the same way with Bri. But, even though I may flirt a little with her, I know where the line is and I don't cross it. I don't buy her jewelry or clothing. A gift certificate is much more appropriate. Tickets to a concert or plane tickets for a vacation, much more appropriate. You know what I mean?
I'm not trying to come down on you, Brah, I jsut saw that the line was being crossed a little bit and it made me very uncomfortable. I mean, think about it. What if a guy had given your wife a beautiful, expensive necklace for her b-day? It would feel really awkward, wouldn't it? Especially if you'd purchased a piece of beautiful jewelry for her and put it in the glove compartment of the ferrari you bought her, because you wanted to spoil her rotten on her b-day as her husband. Capiche?
And, I don't have a problem if you want to tell Carla what I've told you, because she's made her feelings very clear about what she wants from me concerning my relationship with Bri. And, believe me, I've been alot more lenient with what I've put up with from you than she's been with me when it comes to Bri. So, I'm pretty sure that she's going to back me up on this and not have a problem with it. But, even if she did, I still have an obligation to tell you, as a man, how I feel.
So, if you don't have a problem with this, then I don't have a problem with you and we can go on becoming friends. So, friends?
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