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Date Posted: 09:46:34 02/24/06 Fri
Author: JJ
Subject: Re: Well..
In reply to: oh kay 's message, "Re: Well.." on 21:24:08 02/23/06 Thu

I understand where you're coming from, I really do, especially about girls on these sites or girls at the rink, but what you have to come to realize is that in your past relationship there was no one to blame but yourself or your man. You said it yourself, the fact that you never knew the truth and couldn't trust him is why you two broke up, correct? And you didn't trust him because of what simply, hearsay? Well I'll tell you something. There is YOUR problem right there. If you don't have enough trust, there is no way you to should have been together. These girls, or "puckbunnys" are going to talk about him, of course - he is a local celebrity, it's a given! They are going to know he has a girlfriend if he does, and they are going to do all that is possible to ruin this. You have to understand that. Jealous girls talk shit, it's a fact of life. Basically what I'm saying is, what if your ex really did love you? And WHAT IF, you two really could have had something if you put your insecurities aside and trusted him over those puckbunnys. You dumped him because of girls talking, but how is he supposed to stop that? How is that his fault, especially if what they were saying was a load of bullshit.

Just my two cents.

//all the best <33

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