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Subject: 藝術館踩場《回想》


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湯姆
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Date Posted: 01:18:57 10/29/04 Fri
In reply to: 各人回應 's message, "事後檢討: 拾月廿三日香港藝術館踩場事件" on 02:08:57 10/28/04 Thu

《回想》


A) 在大家的討論過程中:「動作」與「說話」

1) 用「動作」去表達和講解自己的主意比起用「說話」來得簡單及有效;
2) 做「動作」時,大家不知不覺地精神了起來,集中起來;
3) 做「動作」使人更容易明白,更清楚去了解其他人的想法和體會到實際做出來的情況。相反,只憑「說話」可能令事情更複雜,令人更模糊,甚至沉悶。


B) 當大家意見分歧時:「沉默」

1) 「沉默」好像是大家常用的一種解決方法;
2) 當人對一個主意產生興趣時會很積極;同樣,沒有興趣時會很冷淡,是一種正常反應。沒趣的人往往會選擇「沉默」,或選擇「是旦啦!」,跟隨大眾;
3) 「積極」會否想聆聽或接受「冷淡」的原因﹖
4) 「冷淡」又會否肯打破自己的「沉默」呢﹖


C) 主持的重要性:「帶頭雁」

1) 在一望無際的天空上,一群雁子正向南遷移,呈一個V字形飛行。但當「帶頭雁」被人擊落,整群雁子就好像一隻雞沒有了頭一樣,不知所措,分飛四散,萬無目的;
2) 主持就活像一隻「帶頭雁」,帶領著一群雁子,確定大家向著同一個目的地進發。就算有多好的主意,多完善的安排,如果沒有了「主持」這個重要角色,每當大家遇上一些意外或未預期到的事情,大家就會感到不知所措,像一盤散沙一樣,失去了重量;
3) 主持也要保持中立,確保大家有機會發表意見,達至共識。主持這個角色,是先要得到各人的信任和肯定。


黎戀戀,囉囉攣。謝謝!

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