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Subject: you have the right to choose


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Angela
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Date Posted: 09:34:21 06/05/07 Tue

You have the right to choose your friends, the extent of your relationships with them, etc. You are giving these people too much power in your life. You are not responsible for other people's issues. I used to be like that. They can never be satisfied. You are only a good person in their eyes when you meet their needs. Once you can't or won't, the accusations start. Once you stop feeling responsible in an unhealthy way for other people, you will attract people to you who want to be friends with you just because they like you and not for what you can do or be for them.

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