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Subject: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Lauren [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 10:17:06 08/22/09 Sat I'm sure that most of us here uttered those words at some time while growing up. We also go an enema despite them and then felt embarrassed at how much was being expelled as a result of being given that enema. On a similar note we sometimes elect to take an enema for emotional reasons even when we don't need one for physiological ones. Under those circumstances the enema usually has its desired emotional effect when expelled, but I am often left in amazement at how much is really expelled even when I think I didn't need one. With the sounds, the odor and the quantity I again become embarrassed just like I did when younger. But I do feel just great. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Margaret [Edit] Date Posted: 10:58:03 08/22/09 Sat Lauren, so true in all respects. There's nothing like a good (soapy?) enema with a thorough evacuation to make one feel much better, emotionally and physiologically. But I don't mind the smells, sounds, and quantity eliminated. All part of the enema experience for me. In many ways erotic too! Margaret [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: samantha [Edit] Date Posted: 02:49:27 08/23/09 Sun Margaret, You are so right, in so many ways. the enemas have their associated feelings, thrills, and aromas. However, often overlooked is that THE reason we all 'feel so good' after a gentle enema, is without controversy now, it's commonly believed that an enema beneficially stimulates the release of Serotonin, and other, endorphin-like chemicals in your gut, which then travels via your circulatory system, to the brain, giving that 'rush' of satisfaction. Just thought you'd like to know. Write me if you want to. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Margaret [Edit] Date Posted: 11:06:24 08/22/09 Sat I forgot to add that enemas are just plain fun! Preparing, taking, holding, and expelling. Wonderful childhood memories too. Margaret [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Lisa [Edit] Date Posted: 05:18:42 08/23/09 Sun Whenever I said that, I was given the "Option" of a glycerin suppository. I always remembered well the bad experience I had with one when I was 6. I got the delayed reaction! After that I always "Agreed" to not fight the enema. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Another Lisa [Edit] Date Posted: 12:24:01 08/23/09 Sun A typical exchange with my mom would go something like this: Mom - "You're not your usual cheerful self today, do you feel okay, do you need an enema?" Me - "No mom, I don't need an enema." Mom - "I know you don't like them but you know you feel better after an enema." Me - "Can we do it later?" (At this point I had to be careful that I didn't really talk her out of it) Mom - "No dear. The sooner we do it the sooner you will feel better." Me - "Okay, lets get it over with." [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Margaret [Edit] Date Posted: 12:33:16 08/23/09 Sun Another Lisa, That's the way I did it too! Be resistant enough that mom didn't think you were developing an enema fetish--which you were--but be sure to stop in time to be sure you got one. We can be so crafty! Margaret [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Christinet T. [Edit] Date Posted: 13:17:52 08/23/09 Sun Lauren, there is a whole progression of these expressions and most of us may have been guilty in our younger ages of saying them. "But I don't need an enema" was usually met with mom's firm resistance to which I would counter with "OK, but I don't need much to make me go." The reply would be "I'll give you just enough, don't worry." Now is about the time when "I've really got to go. Take it out. Take it out" and the final reply was "Just a little bit more." We all know the scripts and when we eventually all become moms ourselves we just switch roles. They're easy because we've heard them all before. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Barb [Edit] Date Posted: 06:04:56 08/24/09 Mon My mother gave very nice enemas. They were comfortable and did make me go so I don't think I ever said that I didn't need one. Although now that I think of it, even if I did it wouldn't have mattered much. My younger twin sisters didn't like them at all and you could hear them complaining at the other end of the house. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: very nice enemas Author: Little Sarah (to Barb) [Edit] Date Posted: 07:39:16 08/25/09 Tue Fine your mother gave very nice enemas. My mother aldo did. The first time she told me it wouldnt hurt and I would feel better after the enema. She asked me to take the enema without fuss or crying - like she had received an enema before I was born. So I did. I received more enemas for constipation, cold, worms and period discomfort - and as a prepation for longer trips, gyn exams or (vaginal) intercourse. The nicest enemas were the enemas my husband gave me before driving me to hospital for the births of my 4 daughters. Later, also my 4 daughters became good enema receivers. BTW, why did your sisters cry? Enemaed hugs Little Sarah [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Catherine A. [Edit] Date Posted: 10:52:25 08/24/09 Mon Ladies...Just wondering if your husband or significant other acts the same way when you suggest that he needs an enema -- like a kid. I know my husband does! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Diana [Edit] Date Posted: 12:01:41 08/26/09 Wed My problem is my hubby loves enemas too much. There, I have to be careful not to even suggest it remotely unless I've got an hour or more to spare. Fortunely, I make sure I have plenty of time to spare at least once a week ... and we love our sessions. One time I suggested it during the Monday Night Football Game Pre-Game show. Almost nothing interferes with my husband's love for football. We got back in time to see some of the fourth quarter. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Linda [Edit] Date Posted: 14:33:50 08/28/09 Fri My husband doesn't like enemas. He gets plenty of them from me anyway because they are very good for him and because I love to give them to him. I always hear the "But I don't need an enema" line but I can't remember a single time that he has ever talked me out of giving him a good dose of Ivory. Even though we have been married for five years, he still is trying to get out of his enemas. Guess he is just a typical male. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Annita (eware) [Edit] Date Posted: 12:23:10 09/14/09 Mon Methinks too much protestation is a cover for enjoying them a lot! And, that's a good sign. Lap enemas for males should be given when both parties are totally naked. Whatever the males age. Has anyone come across an illustrated instruction manual that would be suitable to prepare children or young adults for the procedure? I recall many years ago seeing "The enema bible" being advertised, however it no longer seems to be available. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Elaine [Edit] Date Posted: 10:15:27 08/29/09 Sat These are "famous last words" I'd say! I said it, my daughters said it, and my grandchildren have said it -- and the enema was always given. My husband even said it when I suggested I give him an enema over the years - and he was given the enema too. After seeing the enema bag out in the bathroom I would ask my mom why I was going to be given an enema. The answer was you need it and you will feel better afterwards. If I was sick I never felt that way but for constipation if I was complaining I did feel better. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Dolores [Edit] Date Posted: 10:38:35 09/02/09 Wed "Because I said so, now get undressed" is the only recourse my daughters have to my suggestion that it's time for an enema. Of course, I never schedule them when they might have something personal planned ... that's why later in the weekday evening is usually the time. They complain, but I'm deaf to that, just like my mother was deaf to me, and I presume her mother to her. Lately, though, I think they are beginning to enjoy enemas because, while they still protest, the protests come while they are undressing and are not as vigorous as in their preteen years. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Sandi [Edit] Date Posted: 07:10:52 09/05/09 Sat I remember being called into the bathroom where I saw the bulging red enema bag hanging on the shower rod with the soapsuds dripping down the sides and the shiney black nozzle dangling down with its vaseline on it. I told mom that I didn't need or want an enema,but she told me that I needed to be cleaned out and to get down on my knees bending over the side of the tub. Before I knew it, I was being cleaned out. I would feel full and the cramps were horrible. I yelled, take it out, take it out, please take it out. I have to go, but she said just take a little more of the enema bag. Then I had the worst bowel movement ever while she watched. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Jane [Edit] Date Posted: 12:53:14 09/05/09 Sat The dreaded words were you what you need is a good enema Jane. Then Mom would get the red bag out of the closet and tell me to wait until she called. When I entered the bathroom Mom would be sitting on the toilet with a bulging red enema bag hung from the shower rod. Soon I would be draped over her knee and getting my skirt lifted up and panties pulled down. Mom would always say that this was going to as difficult for her as for me. Before I knew it the black nozzle was in my butt and then I heard a click. As soon as I felt the warm water rush in I started to cramp. No matter what I did or said Mom would persistently coach me to take just a little more. She would stop when I cramped but I always had to take the entire bag. At least my Mom would leave the room so I could expel in private. These enemas continued until I went away to college. Now I am repeating the same words to my teenage daughter. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Sandi [Edit] Date Posted: 09:01:27 09/06/09 Sun Jane reminds me more about my childhood and teen enemas from the red Flamingo Fountain Syringe, enema bag that my mom used on me. Unlike her, my mom did not leave the room while I expelled because she was busy at the sink cleaning the bag and nozzle after cleaning me out. Frankly, I was so happy to expell after having to hold the enema in so that it would work, that I did not care that mom was there. After all I did not want to have to take another enema from that bag. Unlike Jane, I was nude for my enemas and kneeling on my knees over the side of the tub with my butt in the air.. I also remember sometimes coming home from school and seeing the family enema bag drying over the bathtub. That meant that mom had just taken an enema and I saw some vaseline residue at the end of the hose and beginning of the enema nozzle. Very often she would tell me to undress and get into the bathroom for a good cleaning out. Before I knew it that same nozzle with the vasiline residue that had been inside her was inside me while I was cramping and getting a good cleaning of my bowels that I told her that I did not need.. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Alice [Edit] Date Posted: 14:01:55 09/05/09 Sat The worst was when I really did not need an enema because I was not constipated or sick. Mom told me to get into the bathroom because it was time for my regular twice a month internal bath. Sometimes she would just call it a visit from the soapsuds fairy. The usual words came from me....I don't want the soapsuds, and then the take it out, take it out that every kid who ever got it up the butt must have cried. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Dorothy [Edit] Date Posted: 12:53:08 09/09/09 Wed I once confided in a friend, in the days when everyone knew everyone else got an enema too, that mom was going to give me one when I got home from school ... and I just hated enemas. She told me to relax and to at least attempt to enjoy what was inevitable amd, to even suggest while expelling that "I think I might need another one." My friend said the first time she said this to her mom, she thought her mom was going to faint ... but she did get a second enema and her mom, probably wondering if this was some ploy by the youngers, suggested a third to which my friend said "sure, if you think so." So I tried to relax when mom said it was time for a enema. But this time, instead of just stepping out of my slacks and panties, I told mom to wait until I got undressed in my bedroom, then walked into the bathroom naked. She tried not to show she was somewhat shocked, but I could read it on her face. I always took my enemas over her lap. It was a different feeling being uninhibited by a blouse and bra. Being somewhat relaxed, the enema felt completely different than from the times I always fought her administering it. AS I was expelling, and she was rinsing the bag, I suggested possibly as second enema, just to be sure I was "cleaned out". Now she was taken back, but she filled the bag and I suggested maybe I was big enough to take an enema standing up. She hung the bag from the shower curtain rod, I bent over, putting my hands on the edge of the bathtub. I felt so relaxed I actually enjoyed it, just like my friend said. I didn't ask for a third enema, but as mom was cleaning up the equipment, she asked if I might need another one. I asked why? She said because when she takes an enema, the first one is usually soapy (mine was clear water), then she said she took at least two rinse enemas. "I think next time we'll try that," she said. I actually couldn't wait for the next enema session, told my friend her suggestion worked, and have enjoyed enemas ever since. I'm married now, my husband enjoys enemas as much as I do, and my daughters somehow learned to enjoy them, especially after we had a long talk and I told them about my friend, her suggestion and how my mom helped me to enjoy the sessions. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Rebecca [Edit] Date Posted: 17:35:43 09/10/09 Thu Dorothy, I confided in my friend Linda that I was going to be given an enema after school. Back then enemas were common and we talked about what happened when we were home sick. The enema bag was kept behind the bathroom door or in the shower in both our homes. Anyway when we got off the bus (we were in 7th grade) she asked if she could stop over on the way home and I said yes thinking that may be I would not have the enema! As we walked into the house mom was there and was a little surprised to see Linda too. Linda said she wanted to go to the bathroom and sat and talked with my mom would reminded me that I was going to be given an enema. I said I really did not need one but that did not work and she said we would do it after Linda left. Linda and went to my room and closed the door. Linda told me the enema bag was hanging on the towel rack but that it was empty so may be I was not going to get one. I told her what my mom just said and Linda said she would stay for a few a while anyway and we would pretend we were doing homework. It was about a half hour later that mom came into the room and told Linda she'd have to leave in a few minutes. When she said that mom gave me a knowing look. Linda collected her things and as we went downstairs my mom was in the bathroom already. Linda asked me to call her and tell her what happened. As soon as she left mom had me get my robe on and come to the bathroom. AS I was getting ready for my enema mom asked if Linda knew I was going to be given an enema and I told her yes and that she told me she saw the enema bag earlier. At the time I was very constipated and the enema was very big as I recall. But mom always gave a thorough enema and that particular day I had another one before bed. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: JanetB [Edit] Date Posted: 05:57:10 09/10/09 Thu "Your mom has been here before. You may not technically 'need' one, but think of how much better you'll feel after it's over! Now let's get started!" [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Elaine (again) [Edit] Date Posted: 11:44:25 09/13/09 Sun My daughters and families just visited us for the Labor Day week. My eldest daughter was a little under the weather as they say and it was simply constipation. I suggested she take an enema and she said the famous words "I don't need an enema." It was funny and we laughed. She knows where I keep the enema bag and sure enough later that evening she told me she was going to have an enema. I will say she looked a lot better after the enema!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Rebecca [Edit] Date Posted: 05:45:33 09/24/09 Thu Saying I don't need need an enema never worked and I knew I would happen. Later on I might hear my mom saying to my aunt or grandmother that Rebecca took her enema like a big girl! It is funny how I remember those things. Also hearing mom and my grandmother talking about giving me an enema was a strange feeling. Back then enemas were usually given if I was sick and attention was on having a bm. I'll give an enema if my kids have been sick and they haven't gone to the bathroom and they would prefer not have it but we do it anyway. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Traci [Edit] Date Posted: 05:30:04 09/27/09 Sun I remember was probably 14 or 15 and saying that to my mom even though I really did need one. It was just that I hated them and didn't want one. Like everyone else I got one anyway and I remember it being a full bag and soapy. It really cleaned me out and I remember mom saying asking me if I was sure then that I didn't need one. I think it was the last one mom ever gave me, too. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: I heard it said again, last night Author: samantha [Edit] Date Posted: 12:04:21 10/01/09 Thu The person who said it to me, came to believe that she DID need her enema. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Brit to Samantha [Edit] Date Posted: 13:12:10 10/01/09 Thu Hi Samantha. I'm Brit and I posted on 9-11. My post was entitled "Enema Submission" and if you have seen it you know that I'm a young subbie who receives enemas and spankings from my domme. From your post, I can't help but wonder if you have a little subbie playmate who made the mistake of saying to you that she didn't need an enema, and that you then corrected her mistake by giving her a spanking and that the spanking helped her to promptly decide that having an enema was the thing to do. I hope you don't mind my asking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: to Samantha [Edit] Date Posted: 14:37:38 10/14/09 Wed Samantha, it's Brit. My domme just saw the post I made to you on 10/1 on this thread. She was very upset with me and said that if I ever ask any of you ladies a personal question again she would spank me until my bottom was bright red. So, I am sending you this message to say that I am sorry for being out of line. I'm sure you didn't answer because you thought it was none of my business, and you were right. Please forgive me. Sincerely, Brit. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Jill to Brit [Edit] Date Posted: 10:28:14 10/15/09 Thu Honey, you did the correct thing and I think you are a very sweet little girl. We all need to respect the private home life of the other members of this board. I would bet that what Samantha was talking about was in regard to a daughter who didn't want to have her enemas and that a spanking was administered by Samantha to her daughter and the spanking was then followed by the enemas. Such an event is a very private (and not highly unusual) mother-daughter situation and quite understandably Samantha may not wish to talk about it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Jean [Edit] Date Posted: 19:23:55 10/24/09 Sat No words were ever exchanged. Mom was prepared. She had the black bulb with tip out on the sick. Vaseline jar too. She already got the pan of soapy water in the sick. A towel was over toilet seat. Then she called me in (If I was given it). Walked into the bathroom saw what was to happened. As soon as I walked in Mom closed the door. Looked at mom, just turned away, lowered my pajama bottoms, bent over and then mom started to prepare the bulb. seemed like an forever. Mom never said a word. Just left after she was finished. I got up after I felt the nozzle come out. I only got 5-6 enemas. Last time when I was 14 all the same. Now my brother Mike was different. When he walked in, he begged and whined. Always. I sometimes was in the next room and heard. After a couple minutes, I heard lots of crying so I knew it started. Never stopped until I saw mom leaving the bathroom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Audrey [Edit] Date Posted: 09:46:38 10/31/09 Sat Everyone has said this. Yet the enema was given. I simply say I understand but we are going to do this anyway. Everyone is different I know and we can delay it if necessary or maybe give a suppository. May be the best thing is not to make a big deal when we need to give an enema. One thing that will not change is the sight of the enema bag ready and the look of the receiver knowing what is going to happen. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Sherri [Edit] Date Posted: 10:58:09 11/05/09 Thu When my mom called me into the bathroom after school and surprised me I said those words. But I saw the full enema bag ready and mom smearing vaseline on the nozzle,so I sure knew what was going to happen. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Sandra B. [Edit] Date Posted: 10:04:01 11/06/09 Fri For me it was much like that but with something additional. If I said those words too much it was a spanking first and then the enema. By the time I was a teenager the spanking part was sexual enough for me to make the enema very enjoyable, so plenty of times I made a fuss with the full knowledge that the result would be a spanking before the enema. Now when my husband tells me that it is time for my enema I make a fuss and get spanked. He does me over his lap (both the spanking and the enema) and I'm more than ready to be a good-in-bed wife when I have finished expelling. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Cinzia [Edit] Date Posted: 12:00:41 11/08/09 Sun Dear Sandra, perhaps you are also Italian or of Italian origin. Until the 60s we had the so called marital duties. When a wife wouldn't be fucked she pretended to suffer from head ache or stomach ache. Like I have been said from her, once my mother simulated just to have a stomach ache. But in the old times husbands knew better! "Have you your periods?" "No." "So you are sure constipated and need a good soapy enema" "But...but, I don't need one...I don't want one!" "Of course,are you sure? Let's see woman, NOW!!!" The conversation ended with a twentyfive years old naked female laid kicking on the marital lap well spanked and bawling like a baby girl. When my mother finally surrended there was the ultimate shame: a big hose in her rear end and a large soapy enema in her belly. This good lesson for sure taught her to not be a liar again and a good-in-bed wife for the future! For the record: from the results in the WC and for sex my mother was really constipated. After the run to the bathroom with red shut cheeks, she returned in the bedroom burning buttocks and empty stomach, but horny like a goat! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: "But I don't need an enema" Author: Little Sarah [Edit] Date Posted: 09:19:09 11/09/09 Mon Fortunatly Mom told my husband I was not ready for intercourse more often than once a month - and always wanted a chamomile tea enemas for preparation (so my belly was empty, clean, soft and relaxed). Clystered hugs Little Sarah [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Enema before intercourse Author: Marianne [Edit] Date Posted: 13:47:26 11/10/09 Tue Unlike Cinzia's mother, we didnt have such rough customs in our family - no lady has the duty to be ready whenever her husband calls. I never got a spanking from my husband. And an enema before sex I received only one time: when we were married for about 2 years, I didnt get pregnant and my gyn doc told me to do it on my fertile days (which I found out by rectal temps each morning). One month I didnt feel well at my fertile days and was afraid I would miss the oportunity for this month. I asked my husband to give me an enema hoping I would feel better after the enema. I felt better after the enema ... and 9 months later my 1st daughter was born (which meant another enema). Enemaed hugs Marianne [ Post a Reply to This Message ]