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Milo
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Date Posted: 11:25:14 05/09/07 Wed
In reply to:
Will
's message, "Re: smoking and personality..." on 20:34:03 05/08/07 Tue
Wow guys, thanks for the replies and comments. I am glad to hear also other people are attracted by people who smoke. It is very strange I can’t yet figure out why smoking seems sensual to me…
I have thought about this a lot and I think I came to some answer. I guess I like watching the smoke going in and out of the mouth and in and out again, this just reminds me of some erotic act. I also like the initiation to smoke (smoking as a very personal process of growth) and I am curios about the different styles of smoking. One of the reasons I started smoking a few months ago was the fact I wanted to look at me while smoking (inhaling-exhaling and holding a cigarette in my hands); I wanted to see how smoking “looks on me”. Therefore smoking is probably more an aesthetic action for me rather than a pleasure (I honestly don’t like the taste and the smell that much and I hate the aftertaste). That’s probably the main reason I can keep my smoking down to a few cigs a day.
I am not sure if this makes any sense, but perhaps some of you feel the same.
Well, up to a few weeks ago I considered smoking only as an auto-referred action (that is one reason I don’t like to smoke in public that much); but now I am starting to also look at other people smoking and I realize it is not bad at all to look at them. I can’t say smoking makes me hard (like Joe said) or that I would think about smoking girls while masturbating, but for sure thinking about a girl who smokes is somehow becoming a great pleasure. I probably need to further develop this part of me, and this will, I guess, just come naturally; this scares me a little bit on the one side, but on the other side I find it very exciting.
A special thanks to Bill, for his very useful remarks and for the open and kind clarification about this, rather complex, issue. I’d love to keep in contact and further discuss about this.
Linda I am also very interested in your comments and I like the open way you put things in black and white. For what I understand smoking for you is linked very much to sexual acts. I don’t know if I will ever arrive to link these two actions, but perhaps some more comments about this might be useful… Let me just ask you a few other things: you said you have always been attracted by smoking people, does this mean your first erotic thoughts, let’s say at the age of 13-14 concerned people smoking? For what I understand you only started recently smoking (like me) but you already had erotic thought about smoking before? And was this one reason for you to start?
Oh, and what about those Youtube videos someone mentioned? I’d be interested in giving a look at them. This smoking thing is taking more and more, especially after reading your posts…
Well, thanks guys, and keep posting… (Milo)
>Edward-
>
>Point taken!
>
>>Will,
>>
>>The pictures or even stories are ok but still nothing
>>beats the actually thing......Smoking female are
>>awsome.
>>
>>
>>Edward
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>>Joe and Ed,
>>>
>>>It sounds like the picture issue really does
>something
>>>for both of you. Thanks for discussing this. I am
>>>very curious, and I have to try this and see if it
>>>does anything for me. The advantage of a board like
>>>this...do not think this is something I would chat
>>>about when out with the guys! LOL!
>>>
>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>Hey Linda -
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>For as long as I can remeber I have always been
>>>>fascinated by woman who smoke. I dont think it was
>an
>>>>'evolution'
>>>>at all It was just a feeling I have always had that
>>>>woman smokers excite me.The very act of a woman
>>>>smoking is so
>>>>sensual and sexy ( Which always makes me hard) I
>have
>>>>had some very awkward(and fun!) moments while
>>chatting
>>>>with
>>>>woman who smoke.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>Joe- "I almost always think of women smoking (and
>>look
>>>>at pictures of women smoking) Too" The way you look
>>at
>>>>it sort of
>>>>describes the same thing for me.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>Have a good day everyone,
>>>>Edward
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>>For me, it wasn't an evolutionary process - I have
>>>>>been fascinated by watching people smoke as far
>back
>>>>>as I can remember, and am almost always thinking
>>>about
>>>>>a guy or girl smoking when I masturbate.
>>>>>
>>>>>So, let's see...If I masturbate about 10 times a
>>>week,
>>>>>and have been masturbating for about four years,
>>then
>>>>>I've masturbated over 2,000 times thinking about
>>>>>smokers. Wow, that blows me away when I think
>about
>>>>>it like that!
>>>>>
>>>>>It would also be nice to hear from others here
>>>whether
>>>>>it was/is an evolutionary process for them, or
>>>whether
>>>>>it was immediate, or whether they've always had
>that
>>>>>feeling as far back as they can remember. Please
>>let
>>>>>us know.
>>>>>
>>>>>Thanks.
>>>>>
>>>>>Linda
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>>Linda, I’ll go for the second option (telling her
>>>she
>>>>>>captured my attention) as she doesn’t look like a
>>>>>>person who wants to be told she is “hot” by a
>>person
>>>>>>who almost didn’t talk to her before. In addition
>I
>>>>>>wouldn’t be very comfortable doing that. I will
>let
>>>>>>you know about this whole thing…
>>>>>>
>>>>>>I am not sure yet if I find it erotic to watch at
>>>>>>girls smoking, I guess I do somehow, but I am
>still
>>>>on
>>>>>>my way exploring this side of smoking which I
>never
>>>>>>took into consideration. Sara is the first person
>>>>that
>>>>>>makes me feel like this, before that I found
>>smoking
>>>>a
>>>>>>rather senseless action. But now I feel things are
>>>>>>slowly changing. To put in a simple way, it’s like
>>>>>>when you start looking at older girls rather than
>>at
>>>>>>teenagers; it’s something of an evolutionary
>>>process,
>>>>>>but is this normal?...
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
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