I'm going with Tracy on this one in that a non-family member can more often cut to the quick with an issue. There's no fear of reprisal over Sunday dinner if you don't like what the person said. I think there's a bond b/w them that occured at internment that even Casey knows, from experience, he can't breech. Part of you will always remember pain and guilt, especially over a devestating loss. And while you do move on with your life you definitely are effected in a deep way that I'm sure impacts a lot of your future choices. As for Pamela & Sylvie - I think they'll both agree it's better to "have loved and lost then to not love at all." -- Cindy's Cottage

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