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Date Posted: 09:13:20 10/22/07 Mon
Author: Marilyn
Subject: Really? I think they have an exceptional marriage and a rare relationship with each other. I feel like at this point in time, Pamela’s guilt and her fear for Casey are what’s at the heart of their problems, maybe I’m naïve and not digging deep enough..but I just don’t see any deeper problems. They are very in tune with each other, if they weren’t, I don’t think Pamela’s guilt would be such a burden and Casey would not feel anything different. As for Belinda, Jamie & Pamela....I've rambled so I have to go inside >>>>
In reply to: susiej 's message, "Man, I had a busy weekend and missed some great questions as well as some posts with very interesting points! #1 I think it has taken a lot for Casey to step back from the IRA- he knows he could run it better but he isn't willing to take on the danger anymore for the sake of Pat and Pamela; yet she pretty much does whatever the hell she feels like. I really had a hard time with her in this book. It seems to me that she makes things very difficult for Casey. As I posted down below, I think there's a lot more wrong with their marriage than her secret and that's why she doesn't want to tell it- she worries that the marriage can't take more. And her actions concerning Belinda just struck me as well, if it all goes wrong with Casey, I'll always have Jamie. Not consciously perhaps but deep inside." on 07:47:21 10/22/07 Mon

I admit to not completely understanding Pamela and her feelings for both men…until just the other day. Now this may not make sense to anyone else, but in my mind it helps so I’ll take it :-) Of all my former boyfriends/relationships (and there weren’t THAT many hahaha) there is one whose memory still holds a soft spot in my heart. Now I haven’t seen the boy in over 30 years so it’s really just his memory not the man that lingers. He was actually my first love, we didn’t end the relationship ‘officially’, our feelings didn’t change, he made a military move and our ages and distant moved us on in life. I can only imagine how it would be if we had lived near each other all these years though. Now I’m VERY happily married and love my husband dearly, but I can imagine that if I saw this boy/man with another woman today I’d be jealous. Irrational maybe, but I’d feel that way nonetheless. So, this reflection made me understand a bit better how Pamela must feel about Jamie. It takes nothing away from her feelings for Casey and I think I finally get it *g*

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