44-1) Pamela must come to terms with her motivation and forgive herself before she can ever make accept forgiveness from Casey and feel comfortable in her own skin. (44-3) Pamela and Jamie have a very special relationship. They understand each other completely without needing the reinforcement of intimacy. They are soulmates in my opinion (but we know what I think about her choice of husband!). Can a person be so intrinsically linked to two people? It seems so here. Jamie knows what Pamela needs, asks no questions and expects nothing in return. Often marital relationships are a lot more complicated, expectations are defined in some way, there are more constraints. Jamie and Pamela have a certain freedom in that regard and maintain an intimacy that transcends a physical resolution. Am I barking up the wrong tree? Or letting my admiration for Jamie take me too far? -- Cindy's Cottage

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Date Posted: 14:48:48 09/27/07 Thu
Author: Denise
Subject: 44-1) Pamela must come to terms with her motivation and forgive herself before she can ever make accept forgiveness from Casey and feel comfortable in her own skin. (44-3) Pamela and Jamie have a very special relationship. They understand each other completely without needing the reinforcement of intimacy. They are soulmates in my opinion (but we know what I think about her choice of husband!). Can a person be so intrinsically linked to two people? It seems so here. Jamie knows what Pamela needs, asks no questions and expects nothing in return. Often marital relationships are a lot more complicated, expectations are defined in some way, there are more constraints. Jamie and Pamela have a certain freedom in that regard and maintain an intimacy that transcends a physical resolution. Am I barking up the wrong tree? Or letting my admiration for Jamie take me too far?
In reply to: Carla 's message, "My last questions. As always, it's been fun writing them up and reading your replies. We're a smart bunch of cookies!" on 10:27:09 09/27/07 Thu

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No, not taking it too far, Denise, I would agree with this summation actually. There are less constraints with Jamie, no expectations etc. Therefore she can, at times, be a bit freer about her feelings than she is with Casey. There are still things to lose, but the relationship has very different parameters. (NT) -- celtgirl, 14:52:07 09/27/07 Thu
- Thanks, Cindy. I feel I may not always think rationally (and objectively) where Jamie is concerned *g*. (NT) -- Denise, 15:04:17 09/27/07 Thu
  - He's every bit as important to me as Casey is, Denise- so we're on the same page. :) (NT) -- celtgirl, 15:27:01 09/27/07 Thu
    - Well that's just grand to hear! What can I say, I have an emotional attachment to that boyo that is a bit beyond reason! (NT) -- Denise, 17:21:57 09/27/07 Thu
      - That is exactly what I like best, readers with emotional attachments slightly beyond reason to my boyos. :) (NT) -- celtgirl, 11:52:42 09/28/07 Fri

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