Ya know, until reading Cindy's snippet above, I was never really sure if Belinda loved Jamie..truly, if she was really in the realtionship for the right reasons. So I was always wary of her, but I did feel bad for her too. No she wasn't married to him, but she really had more of a legitmate claim on the man than Pamela did (her being married and all). I didn't condone her pettiness but I understood it. -- Cindy's Cottage

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Date Posted: 14:10:29 10/04/07 Thu
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Marilyn
Subject: Ya know, until reading Cindy's snippet above, I was never really sure if Belinda loved Jamie..truly, if she was really in the realtionship for the right reasons. So I was always wary of her, but I did feel bad for her too. No she wasn't married to him, but she really had more of a legitmate claim on the man than Pamela did (her being married and all). I didn't condone her pettiness but I understood it.
In reply to: susiej 's message, "Well, Belinda really started things here. She was jealous and had good reason to be but she completely mishandled this...or not, perhaps she wanted it out once and for all. I may think Pamela should do a better job of letting Jamie go, but I don't really think she was out of line here. Jamie gave her the horse. Belinda is not his wife and has no say so over who he gives gifts to- she looked petty as if him spending all that money was the real issue. And when she knocks Casey well, I won't fault Pamela for reacting the way she did. I bet some of the ladies here would have thrown a lot more than a glass of wine at Belinda." on 09:38:30 10/04/07 Thu

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Yep,I answered this before I read the snippet. I always thought it would be a bummer to lose Jamie so I sympathized with that, but she did push here- she forced out the truth. After reading it, I do feel for her and for Jamie. But I was surprised when he said he'd loved Pamela since she was eleven. I always thought he loved Colleen really loved her. I didn't know he was susceptatible when they were married, but I guess it wasn't a very happy marriage. Poor Jamie, he has so much love to give but the women he wants won't take it. Thinking about this makes me wonder- if Pamela had truly loved Jamie she might have waited a bit for him to thaw insteaad of running straight to Casey. And then when she did, she doesn't accept the fall out as Belinda so aptly puts it-she runs to Jamie for help nearly every time. As I've said, it doesn't set well with me. Casey and Jamie are very honorable in this situation ,but as I see it, in this scenario, Pamela is selfish. (NT) -- susiej (), 10:55:45 10/05/07 Fri
- He really did love Colleen, and some part of him always will. She is his first real love after all- and he would have stayed married to her forever if they could have recovered from the death of their boys, but they couldn't. At this point though they are somewhat estranged, and though Pamela is only eleven (or twelve, I can't remember exactly) he feels connected to her right away, but not in a weird way, because he's fully aware she's a child. It's not until she comes back into his life at a legal age that he is attracted to her as a man to a woman. However he realizes he's always loved her in some fashion or other. Their love is a shifting and evolving thing. (NT) -- celtgirl, 11:52:38 10/05/07 Fri

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