Re: Sometimes a girl needs a damn good spanking -- SOMETIMES A GIRL NEEDS A SPANKING

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Subject: Re: Sometimes a girl needs a damn good spanking

Author:
Alfred (for Ms. Confused)

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Date Posted: 20:22:24 02/09/13 Sat
In reply to: Confused 's message, "Re: Sometimes a girl needs a damn good spanking" on 04:52:56 02/08/13 Fri

The questions I would ask would involve discussing your tearful discussion and the lying that somehow was connected with it. I always think lying is deeply motivated and should not be a spankable offense but rather an occasion for a truth-revealing conversation. No child, boy or girl, just lies. Lying is almost always motivated by deep conflicts and virtually every parent can easily detect the lie and then lead the conversation to the point that the lying is exposed. Parents always know.

Once the lie is out in the open, the motivations and underlying issues should be explored with the liar. Lying shows bad character and disrespect. Most reasonable persons will be ashamed and want to be forgiven for disappointing their parents by showing bad character and disrespect. If a young person has no such disappointment and no desire to be forgiven, personally I doubt that you are going to spank such desires into them. As everyone knows, this observation is consistent with my general take on the spanking of real children.

So, Ms. Confused, thank you for allowing me to comment but I don't really have a question that should be asked. I know that this is not a counselling or parenting board and also I want to respect everyone's privacy. Therefore, pease allow me to just sympathize with your spanked daughter. Spankings from Ms. Confused are always sound and I am sure this one was no exception. So, if things are better and the clearing of the air has allowed true constructive family communication, then everyone here and, especially I, will rejoice.

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Re: Sometimes a girl needs a damn good spanking	Vera	16:11:17 02/16/13 Sat