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Subject: Mrs. State at 28...

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Date Posted: 10:58:46 12/23/08 Tue
In reply to: Interested participant 's message, "Mrs. Contestant" on 10:33:19 12/23/08 Tue

I competed for the first time at age 26, and won my state title at age 28 (27?? I don't remember if I had turned 28 yet)... I did feel weird telling people when I first started, and I especially kept it out of my professional life. I mainly did because I was a high school teacher, I definitely did not look 28 at the time so I tended to blend with students, and I always felt I had a hard time being treated professionally and with respect by my colleagues. I thought the fact that I was now a "pageant girl" would make them think even less of me. Well, I realized that it was ALL in my head! Once I won my state title, I invited some of my closer colleagues to my celebration as a way to test the water, and it spread like wildfire. I was met with a lot of congratulations and acceptance!! A lot more than I thought!! My mom was so proud of me, my sister (also a teacher) proudly put a picture of me in my crown and sash in her classroom, and the athletic director where I coach will still sometime greet me with a very loud and jovial, "Well if it isn't the former Mrs. North Dakota!" So, I think you will meet the nay-sayers out there--they're there, trust me! But, those who matter will be proud and will stand with you every step of the way--win or lose! I would just like to say to the people who would look at me with judging eyes--I would like to see YOU up on stage in a swimsuit or evening gown and walk in high heels without falling, all while answering a spur of the moment question without saying "um"!! :) Good luck to you, and I say, spread the word!

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[> Subject: I did my first pageant after I was married and there were many people who asked why?

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Date Posted: 12:55:05 12/23/08 Tue

Many people asked why I would want to do something like this. I had a lot of people who made fun of what I was doing. This made me want to even get out in the community and state more to show people that I have a reason for doing what I am doing.

I competed in the International system so my platform played a large part of getting me out into the community.

After people saw the good things I was doing with my platform in the community they changed what they were saying and saw that I was doing a good thing.

As a Mrs. we have to set good examples and be real life role models for others in our state and community. I would say look at it as being a role model for others and not just as competing in a pageant.

There should always be more to a beauty queen than just her crown!

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