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Date Posted: 01:17:00 01/29/14 Wed
In reply to:
Maggied
's message, "Re: Complete feminization of husbands" on 13:01:25 08/29/13 Thu
>>>>Hello!
>>>>I am Edita from Holland. I am looking for other
>wifes
>>>>who have similar experiences as I have...
>>>>I will tell my story in short. 10 years ago, I got
>>>>married at the age of 23, my husband was 21. We were
>>>>expecting a child, and decided it was better to get
>>>>married.
>>>>I have always been interested in feminine males, my
>>>>brother grew up as a sissy (he was the youngest and
>>>>only boy among five children in the family). I don't
>>>>remember him in pants...
>>>>After I got married I very quickly secured the
>>>>dominating position in our marriage for me. When my
>>>>husband graduated from college, he was not able to
>>>>find a job. I was successfully working in a computer
>>>>company at that time. So we agreed that he would
>stay
>>>>at home, taking care of the household and our
>>>>daughter. Pretty much that was the time I decided to
>>>>feminize my husband. I started out with female
>>>>underwear, continued via a few "dressing games"
>until
>>>>he accepted to wear female clothing only. I then had
>>>>his body hair removed by laser treatment, had a few
>>>>corrective cosmetic surgeries, etc. In 2006 I had
>him
>>>>started on hormones. Since 2007 (due to the hormones
>>>>he could not "perform" as a male anymore) he lives
>>>>completely as a woman.
>>>>To make a long story short, over the past 8 years,
>my
>>>>husband has become a real woman, he had breast
>>>>augmentation in 2007 and he completed his journey
>>into
>>>>womanhood by having his Reassignment Surgery in July
>>>>2010.
>>>>I am very satisfied with my "work". Many people ask
>>me
>>>>why I had him completely demaled as that stopped any
>>>>male/female relationship. I did this because I just
>>>>felt better living with MtF TG rather than a
>>>>"crossdresser". After he got me pregnant, he had
>>>>fulfilled all of his male duties, that's all I
>wanted
>>>>from him as a man.
>>>>We are staying married (which is possible here).
>>After
>>>>some early difficulties, my husband is a happy woman
>>>>now and has fully accepted his role in the family
>and
>>>>obediently follows my instructions. Our daughter
>>>>understands the situation very well and has no
>>>>problems with it.
>>>>I only allow very feminine clothes for him to wear,
>>>>i.e. skirts must not be longer than three inches
>>above
>>>>the knee.
>>>>I would like to know, if there are more women here,
>>>>who have gone as far as we did. I would be
>>interesting
>>>>to hear about their lives.
>>>>
>>>>Edita
>>>
>>>Dear Edita,
>>>
>>>Yours is certainly a very interesting story. I do
>not
>>>have any direct personal knowledge of similar
>>>situations, but I have heard about a couple of them
>>>via correspondence. (btw, The other cases were also
>in
>>>Europe.)
>>>
>>>I do know of a few somewhat related
>situations---e.g.,
>>>of a fully feminised male-to-female spouse who became
>>>the stay-at-home wife of the genetically female
>>>spouse, and took care of the children also, like a
>>>traditional 'wife.'
>>>However, these cases did not involve a frankly
>>>dominant/submissive relationship. Instead, the male
>>>to female 'wife' had always wanted to make the gender
>>>transition, and the genetically female spouse was
>very
>>>supportive of that.
>>>Besides these two cases, i also know of another case
>>>like these, except that the transformation did not
>>>include SRS (but was complete in all other respects.)
>>>
>>>I hope that both you and your transformed spouse are
>>>very happy with your new situation and with your
>>>relationship.
>>>
>>>Nancy
>>
>>
>>
>>Dear Edith,
>>
>>Thank you for sharing this wonderful story. It is
>>somehow exciting and at the same time reassuring to
>>read about people with similar lifesytles. I too am a
>>male that lives full time as a female while my wife
>>performs the traditional male role in our marraige.
>>Perhaps it was easier for me then your husband because
>>I was never what you would refer to as a alpha male
>>and I have had a history of crossdressing from an
>>early age.
>>
>>My wife and I met in college and married shortly after
>>graduation. Over the next three years while she
>>excelled in the corporate world I struggled losing job
>>after job. While the quality of my work excelled it
>>appeared that I had difficulty with corporate politics
>>and always seemed to end up on the short end of the
>>stick. Time after time I would do the work and a boss
>>or co-worker would take the credit and I didn't have
>>the gumption to stand up for myself.
>>
>>I had finally settled for a job far below my ability
>>and it was at their holiday party where things came to
>>a head. We sat at the same table with my obnoxious
>>boss and all through the meal he seemed to make jokes
>>at my expense and seemed to want to hit on my wife.
>>Finally it was her who stood up and told him in no
>>uncertain terms that he was a lout and if I wouldn't
>>stand up for myself she would and that he could take
>>his lousy underpaid job and shove it. With that she
>>said lets go and we left.
>>
>>I could hardly hold my head up as we left and when we
>>got in the car she let me have it. Over the next few
>>months it was very cold in the house as I struggled to
>>find a job so I mostly just stayed home and did house
>>hold chores, cooking and cleaning. It was then that I
>>started crossdressing while she was away and I was
>>working at home. Then one day it came to a head.
>>
>>We had a long discussion over the next few weeks and
>>to make a long story short she made her point. She
>>didn't care how I dressed or if I wanted to stay home
>>and be a housewife so long as I held my head up high
>>and excepted it. It wasn't a point made out of anger
>>but out of love and over the next few months she spent
>>a lot of time with me helping me shop and to learn to
>>present myself in an appropriate demure manner. She
>>has done a remarkable almost miraculous job helping me
>>to master the art of makeup and hair and I love her
>>all the more for her efforts.
>>
>>Unlike your husband I have not had sexual reassignment
>>surgery but I do sucessfully live as a woman. It was
>not always an easy or quiet process and there were
>most certainly issues along the way and times
>>when I wanted to purge but it was our love and her
>>strong will that helped keep me on the right path.
>As for
>>permanent changes over the years I have had a
>>bi-lateral orchi and a bit of facial feminization
>>surgery as well as hormones. I have not gone as far
>>as breast implants as of yet but with the aid of
>>hormones and t-blockers my breasts are a solid 38D. I
>>wish you and your husband the best. Thank you for
>>allowing me to share.
BOTH are very wonderful stories & absolutely two of the luckiest guys ever! There are so many of us out here crying out for our wives to do something like that & have to suffer in silence. The only thing we have is reading your stories at 2am to give us relief =) Thanks for putting them out there for us!
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