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Subject: Re: Spanking and Humiliation

Author:
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Date Posted: 03:23:03 03/03/15 Tue
In reply to: Daniel 's message, "Re: Spanking and Humiliation" on 11:12:47 10/13/14 Mon

I think these childhood experiences seldom are repeated in life as a grown-up. But Lifelong habits can be instilled. Growing up with just an older sister and my mother left me with no experience as the one in charge. Then when I was in charge I tended not to be bossy but considerate. I would say I was better suited to be staff.

" ... being spanked in the presence of my older
>girl cousins made it impossible for me to develop
>macho attitudes, particularly as they were encouraged
>to comment, and occasionally handed the brush....
>..."
>
>I do not think I agree about that. Once I got away
>from home and into, first a military college I assumed
>an increasingly macho style to bury any indication
>that I had been spanked and humiliated by my younger
>sister, my mom until she passed away and an older
>cousin frequently as a child, a teen and sometimes the
>first two years post teen.
>I eventually married a much younger girl who had no
>idea of he things I had been subjected to, and
>thankfully sis and Patty kept my secrets from my wife.
>But there was a price, in that when he opportunity
>arose my sister would find fault and decide I needed a
>reminder of just ho was in charge. She liked to do
>that when she had some friend visiting.
>My wife never caught on or perhaps chose not to
>inquire. We did live far enough away that they didn't
>see each other hat often.Our sex life was quite
>Vanilla, but reasonably satisfying and we did raise a
>decent sized family.
>I had a small business and sometimes when I fired
>someone or had to effect some discipline I'd tell sis
>and usually she'd "Put him in his place" which meant
>at the least a spanking and some mild form of
>feminization.
>The thing is that I am big enough to intimidate others
>and act quite bold despite the way I was brought up. I
>did, however learn to always be polite around females
>and never use work language except at work.

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