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Subject: HELP ME!! I NEED ADVICE!!

Author:
Tim

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Date Posted: 17:18:33 11/04/05 Fri

I have an urgent question and in dire need of some help. I have been hanging out with this girl for a couple of weeks now and she is single as am I and we jus totally clicked with each other we spend most of the time talking to each. People also noticed this and think of us as a couple already. I like her but I haven't told her and her friends tell me she likes me but I don't want to mess up our friendship if I ask her out.

This is where everything is messed up, yesterday her best friend had asked her out which he also happens to be one of my friends. And I still haven't told her how I feel about her or even if I should at all. I was talking to her today and she was telling me that's she was planning on saying yes to him and I want to tell her how I feel but I don't want to put her in a situation where she has to choose. I also know that I will regret it if I don't tell her how I feel so I let her know yesterday that I did like her. She didn't respond to it in anyway and changed the subject and later that day she agreed to go out with him instead of me.

Now I talked to her that night and she had a volleyball game and my original plan was to ask her after the game no matter what had happened but she had already said yes to my friend. Well that night I talked to her and she did tell me that she liked to hang out with me and she did in fact like me but it feels like it's too late to do anything about this. The next day I walked her to school and it was so awkward we didn't say anything to each and jus stayed kind of distant. I don't know what to do I really like her but she is going out wit my friend now and I don't want to turn against him or anything I jus want to be with her I like her a lot or should I just stop talking to her and let it go, although I told her I would never give up on her.

It makes it worse because I see her everyday I promised to walk her in the mornings because she is scared and I always keep my word and we have a class together so please tell me what I can do I could really use some help!

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