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Subject: Re: Pro spanker or spankee Author: JenniAnn to Intrigued [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:24:27 11/08/24 Fri In reply to: Intrigued to JenniAnn 's message, "Re: Pro spanker or spankee" on 09:11:06 11/08/24 Fri Where I grew up in New England, it was not typical at all to be spanked in the first place. To be spanked bare bottom at 16 was certainly not the norm, very very far from. When I was younger I was spanked probably twice weekly. At 16 2-3 times per month. You should know that at least dad, probably both of them, enjoyed spanking me and my sister. I have told previously about I a time when sis got spanked over dad's knees at age 15. He spanked as hard and fast as he could and I saw how he was grinning while he starred at her bouncing cheeks. Realizing he did the same when spanking me was HORRIBLE. That for sure contributed to how I feel about my parents today and how they spanked us. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Pro spanker or spankee Author: Intrigued to JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:32:28 11/08/24 Fri I understand and see there were some unfortunate issues there. At least they were not any frequent. Did you deserve the spankings? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Pro spanker or spankee Author: JenniAnn to Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:08:40 11/08/24 Fri There were of course times when I really deserved a spanking but I would say that 80-90 of the spankings I received were not justified. Many times I hadn't done anything wrong at all, they only though I did. Other times I got spanked for really minor things. Probably as a result of that they enjoyed spanking us. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Pro spanker or spankee Author: Janice [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:55:41 11/08/24 Fri JenniAnn, I'm sorry you suffered such spankings. I'm also estranged from my parents mainly due to spanking-related trauma. Getting spanked is bad enough, but realizing the adult(s) were taking pleasure from our pain/shame added a whole emotional whirlwind. For me, it was my stepmother, Jackie. She never spanked me but anytime she told my father to spank me, he did. And she always watched/participated and didn't hide her enjoyment. Sounds like you were spanked even more often than me, but from 10 - 16 at least once a month Jackie found reason to warn me "just wait until your father gets home." I remember being frustrated that I was so scared while my stepmom was so chippy. I'd be seething in shame my mind racing about my panties coming down for a spanking and Jackie would ask if I wanted to help her make some cookies? Now and then she'd drop a snide comment about "enjoy sitting while you can" or "make sure to do your chores before Dad gets home, you're already in enough trouble, Missy." Actually getting spanked in front of her was humiliating, especially in teen years, when she'd make sure I was humbled enough before it was over. We haven't spoken for decades and even though I do blame my father for going along with Jackie when she wanted to see me get spanked I still speak with him on the phone now and then. He's actually apologized for it but also makes excuses like "times were different back then." PS You mentioned feeling like the only 16-yr-old still spanked. I remember in middle school being so jealous of my friends who complained about being "grounded" but was too embarrassed to tell them to count their blessings because my behind was still sore from the bare bottom hairbrushing I'd suffered last night. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Pro spanker or spankee Author: JD to Janice [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:06:51 11/08/24 Fri Janice, I'm sorry this happened to you. Honestly, it sounds like Jackie was the one who could have most benefitted from having her bare behind blistered! As you've alluded to, your dad was not innocent either. SHAME on him for essentially putting someone else - ANYONE else, even a new love interest woman - ahead of his own children. Not to go too far down this rabbit hole, but I was divorced when my two sons were 9 and 12. My (now ex) wife and their mother, essentially abandoned the family when she and I were in our late 30s...so I raised them, primarily. I would NEVER have put any woman ahead of my own children, I don't care WHAT she had to offer, it would have been NOTHING compared to my children. Likewise, I had discussions with my closest guy friend, Pat, when we were both divorced (he's now remarried). I told him and he agreed, we would NEVER even date a woman who would EVER put US ahead of her own children because we'd know there was something seriously, fundamentally, wrong with her. This attitude doesn't make me some kind of heroic martyr or anything, just a dad who loves his children. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]