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Date Posted: 16:28:05 08/14/16 Sun
Author: Anonymous
Subject: I look at it the opposite way. Parenting is a full time job. Someone
In reply to: No, it's called choice. 's message, "Exactly. Some people seem to think that anyone that doesn't get married or have kids is selfish." on 12:49:38 08/14/16 Sun
who elects not to get married or have kids because he/she knows he/she would not have time for a wife or kids is not a selfish person, he/she is very wise. On the other hand, if someone elects to get married and have kids already knowing he/she doesn't have the time for them or means to support them is selfish, in my opinion. Usually things where you try to "have your cake and eat it, too" do not work out.
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- Exactly. Some people apparently think Chris owes it to them to get married (maybe to them?) (NT) -- Anonymous, 17:25:42 08/14/16 Sun
- That's ridiculous. It's his life! Marriage is a mutual decision. (NT) -- Anonymous, 18:01:39 08/14/16 Sun
- No one needs to get married unless it's positive and mutual -- Anonymous, 18:17:39 08/14/16 Sun
- That's just about MONEY, and pathetic. (NT) -- Anonymous, 18:17:28 08/14/16 Sun
- That's ridiculous. It's his life! Marriage is a mutual decision. (NT) -- Anonymous, 18:01:39 08/14/16 Sun