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Subject: Re: Should We Start Spanking More Often

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Lindsay to Alexis

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Date Posted: 05:30:55 05/02/25 Fri
In reply to: Alexis to Monica and Lindsay 's message, "Re: Should We Start Spanking More Often" on 02:35:16 05/02/25 Fri

Hi Alexis sweetie,

Of the 16 kids involved here so far, these are not younger kids. They are all right in the neighborhood of your kids. That's why when I saw their ages I thought this might be ideal for you. The kids here are all 9 years old through 13, with most by far being 11 12 and 13. We don't have anyone as old as Susan, but I don't see any reason why she couldn't be part of the same sessions.

Ironically, they're almost all from the UK. It would be refreshing to have a couple of girls checking in from the US actually. I don't see any reason why girls as old as 19 can't be under the same regimen. I've read about some in the rules South who gets spanked through 23 or 24 going to college. But the vast majority of girls are exactly your girl's age.

I'm glad you've decided to start with it. The basic rubric remains the same. It's always the same two times every week. The girls go to their rooms, take all their clothes off and fold them, come to the living room and wait for you. Some parents have their children wait with their hands on their heads but I think just down by their sides is fine. Then you have your discussion and there's no reason that you can't go with a higher number than 20 and a higher number than 10 on the lexan. Whatever makes sense to you, just like I said promise me you won't get into the hundreds. 40 well delivered is a good round number. Please remember this is never meant to be a punishment, but an opportunity to keep the kids on the right track and a side benefit certainly is the bonding.

Once the hand and lexan are done and they've danced it off, it's time for them to climb on your laps and start cuddling. Be sure and allow as much time as necessary. I recommend the child straddle the adults legs, face the adult and look into his or her eyes while doing this and soothe and comfort and caress the girls entire bodies as they're calming down from crying.

If you can stick with twice a week, you'll find that this eliminates the need to spank more often. That second section with the lexan is meant for any misbehavior and you can use the paddle as much or as little as is needed. A reminder can be used during any misbehavior that that will be addressed in maintenance and that's he usually enough to curb that behavior.

Once the cuddling is over, like I said time for a big hug and kiss and send them back to put their clothes on unless you prefer that they remain naked which a couple of families do.

Good luck to you and please let me know how it goes. Again, it has been incredibly successful here and although your girls don't seem to need it, lives have been completely turned around as a result of what we're doing here, which is what keeps me doing it.

Best wishes your way, Lindsay

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curious to Alexis
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Date Posted: 09:04:28 05/03/25 Sat

you do know your kids better than anyone here, so only you know what works best for you and your kids. some here might want you to engage in some kind of spanking competition to see who can deliver the hardest, or the most spanks without leaving any marks. like is said, you know your kids better than anyone here and know how to deliver spankings to them without trying to outdo some of the other parents here.

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