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Subject: Re: Living with my grandparents and spanked.

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Bill to Cody.

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Date Posted: 02:13:26 05/11/25 Sun
In reply to: Cody to Grandpa Bill 's message, "Re: Living with my grandparents and spanked." on 18:33:34 05/10/25 Sat

Hello young lady Cody and I have not got much time to reply as we are leaving for church soon and always like to arrive early and help out with various things needing doing. Without sounding rude to you and it is not even a thought to do so. But our beautiful granddaughter Tanya being nude for punishment is not even up for discussion here. We have used it on our daughter grown up and our church uses it as part of discipline with their children or guardians. If Tanya chooses to misbehave or any other child then they face one of the consequences of being nude for a time and no other child should have to be nude unless being punished and it is unfair to ask them to do so. I have rarely met a child who has willingly got nude when not being punished. But I believe as Tanya said one of our friends daughters belonging to the pastor and his good wife or one of our friends daughters and Tanyas mentor done it. But obviously it was a rare occasion and more that she felt left out and not being embarrassed about being seen nude by her parents. Please don't take offence to my reply young lady. But it is a complete no no and my good wife has said the same thing as soon as she heard about it. Grandabob is correct in his words of wisdom and being nude in front of others is supposed to be a deterrent and therefore loose its purpose of being punished if other children were made to go nude which would never happen here unless as i mentioned being punished. Therefore if Tanya decides to continue to misbehave and knowing full well the consequences are nude along with other punishment she like any other child will have to accept it. You are very welcome by the way and you are indeed a wonderful young lady and my good wife and I appreciate your kind words towards us. Yes you are completely correct about our beautiful granddaughter Tanya and how easy she is to love. Most people meeting her even for a brief moment will make a comment of some kind. She sent you and the amazing grandpabob a message a little while ago about a young mother who was outside our church gates and it was around Easter time. Somehow Tanya got talking to her through the railings and found out she had five young children. She had invited the lady inside to meet people just as I was approaching Tanya and put my hand out to shake the ladies hand. Of course I invited her to come inside our church and introduced her to some people and we chatted for a long time with her and our beautiful granddaughter Tanya had found some Easter eggs on the Easter egg hunt and gave them to the lady without even thinking about it for her children. The lady was almost brought to tears and the few people who were with the lady and I speaking to her were the same and that includes a wonderful gentleman who was once involved in a serious crime gang and was a very dagger individual by all accounts. But many years ago I was doing some outreach on the streets and I got talking to him and despite his hostility and abruptness talking to him for a long time and him agreeing to meet with me over several times over a few weeks. He gave his life to Jesus and although he was given a lot of abuse for leaving this gang. He continued to come to church and ground meetings and introduce some of his old gang members to me. Since then a few others have joined our church amen and some of them visit from time to time. I apologise for going of track. But my point was this man and now happily married with children with a wonderful lady who was attending our church for many years he cried seeing the kindness in Tanya and her pure heart toward everyone despite everything that happened to her. She holds no grudges with anyone despite her having every right to do so. That lady before she left church that day searched out our beautiful granddaughter Tanya and hugged her tightly and broke down in tears and Tanya asked that we make a collection for her and her children. I never said anything to Tanya about it. But we were already in the process of doing this. But just the pureness and compassion she has is unbelievable and warm. The lady came back last week with her children and we intend to have them over next weekend along with the friend of Tanyas from her gymnastics again with her father to church like a couple of weeks ago. We need to go now and Cody like grandadbob we completely understand and know that you have Tanyas back and how much you love her and care about her and it is so much appreciated. I was not intending to send you a long message sorry. But I have covered most of what you asked and what I needed to say. Many thanks and blessings to you and your family.

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