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Date Posted: 18:14:05 10/15/24 Tue
Author: Amy
Subject: Re: Diapering for summer vacation
In reply to: Jen 's message, "Re: Diapering for summer vacation" on 15:49:51 10/15/24 Tue

>He sounds like a lot of boys his age. Here’s how I
>would handle it.
>
>He needs to be put on a training program. On a Friday
>night have a sit down conversation with him. Layout
>the new rules, punishments, and rewards. Allow him to
>ask questions.
>
>Before we get into rules, increase the fiber in his
>diet and make sure he’s getting enough sleep and
>exercise.
>
>Steps:
>1) start regular inspections, like 3 to 4 a day.
>2) remove all underwear from his room. Buy cartoon or
>colored underwear. Each morning make a note of what
>underwear you dressed him in. If he has an accident
>and tries to hide it then he won’t be able to
>because you have all the underwear and you know which
>kind he has on. So if he tries to replace Star Wars
>with Cars undies then you’ll know something is up.
>3) no more privacy, all doors remain open.
>4) no more showers, baths only and preferably
>supervised.
>5) no more peeing standing up. Sitting will reduce the
>dribbles a little.
>6) scheduled potty breaks. He’s probably waiting too
>long.
>7) lower his bedtime. He might be tired and sleep
>deprived.
>8) create a rewards chart and give him a reward for
>each week he is successful.
>
>Those steps are good for an 11 year old and should
>work within 6 months or so, but you can really step it
>up by doing diapers and spankings.
>
>Still do everything mentioned above but add in regular
>spankings. I recommend doing one the night you hold
>your family meeting to let him know you are serious.
>Then spank 3 times a week for the first two weeks.
>Yes, I’m being serious. He’s going to hate you for
>it but you need to drive home the point that this
>behavior needs to stop now. After the first two weeks
>reduce it to once a week for a few months.
>
>An 11 year old is probably too big for Pull-Ups so I
>would get Goodnites instead and for diapers he can
>probably fit into Comfees size 8.
>
>The rules are simple:
>Have an accident and tell an adult then no punishment,
>just wear a Goodnite for the rest of the day.
>Have an accident in a Goodnite or diaper and tell an
>adult then no punishment at all, that’s what they
>are for.
>Have an accident and hide it then it’s a spanking
>and diapers, and no reward for the week.
>
>Another tool that works great especially for weekends
>where you are at home all day like a rainy day is a
>bedwetting alarm. There’s no rule saying he can’t
>wear it during the day.
>
>Last year my then 9 year old son was dribbling in his
>underwear. He would be playing and not paying
>attention. I bought a Malem Ultimate alarm. One rainy
>Saturday morning after breakfast I gave him a
>maintenance spanking then dressed him in a pair of
>cartoon briefs and a short t-shirt. I clipped the
>sensor in front of his little wee-wee, ran the cord
>underneath the shirt and attached the alarm to the
>collar. The alarm is loud! He wore his alarm almost
>daily, including after school, for about 2 weeks. I
>never heard it go off. He learned really fast with it.
>
>I hope this helps. Good luck!

I like your plan. But maybe I missed it but what is the reward you mentioned?

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