Re: A Long Drive and Summer Plans Ahead -- Diaper and punishment for children and teens

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Date Posted: 14:17:28 05/17/25 Sat
Author: Deb
Subject: Re: A Long Drive and Summer Plans Ahead
In reply to: Jen 's message, "Re: A Long Drive and Summer Plans Ahead" on 18:33:20 05/13/25 Tue

>How old are your children? Boys or girls? How do you
>currently discipline them and do you already use DD?
>
>We aren’t big on maintenance spanking but we have
>done preventative spankings with our soon to be 11
>year old son. He’s responded well to them.
>
>For all 3 boys we spend a lot of time planning out our
>trip, setting clear rules and punishments, and
>strictly follow FTO rules to set the standard for the
>rest of the trip.
>
>Here’s what we did last summer during our family
>vacation.
>
>In case you haven’t read any of my previous posts, I
>have 3 boys. They are now 6, 8 and soon to be 11. In
>the summer of 2024 they were 5, 7 and 10. We feel DD
>is best for boys between the ages of 6 and 11, and
>each kid is different. Last year the 5 year old was
>not eligible for DD and we felt other punishments were
>better for the 10 year old. So only the 7 year old got
>DD.
>
>In the weeks leading up to the trip we spent time
>together reviewing plans and obedience training. The
>rules were simple; first time obedience for
>everything, no right to appeal, and must say, “yes
>mommy/daddy” every time their name is called. We
>also set a strict budget for their souvenirs. Other
>than that we want them to have fun!
>
>We offered the 7 YO a sort of get out of jail card if
>he agreed to DD. The benefits of wearing a diaper is
>there are multiple timeouts throughout the day for
>changes, giving me one on one time to discuss how
>he’s doing and discipline if necessary. Plus the
>extra padding serves as a constant reminder to behave.
>We told him if he agrees to wear a diaper and a
>pacifier then we would be more lenient on FTO,
>accidents (he still has the occasional accident), and
>no maintenance or preventative spankings. If he says
>no then we will be just as strict and the punishments
>harsher including full baby treatment.
>
>We did not make this offer to 5 because at 5 he’s
>still training and needs to be corrected immediately.
>Plus diapers cause confusion. We didn’t offer 10 DD
>because at 10 he should be a master at FTO and other
>things like spanking works better.
>
>We gave 7 plenty of time to think about it but we
>gently coached him. Ultimately it was his decision and
>one week prior he agreed to diapers. That week I
>stocked up on Huggies Little Mover Size 6 (he now
>wears size 7), Huggies Overnight Size 6 and Huggies
>Little Swimmers. Plus wipes and a few extra pacifiers.
>
>He was still treated like a big boy in every way and
>participated in all the vacation activities. The only
>difference was he was wearing a diaper and used a
>pacifier during the car ride.
>
>We left the first Saturday after school finished.
>Friday night he was diapered for the first time. He
>used the pacifier for the drive to and from the rental
>beach house.
>
>Once at the beach house he used the Little Swimmers at
>the beach. The beach was secluded than I thought it
>would be so on the second day I just dressed him in a
>swim diaper only or with just a rash guard for sun
>protection.
>
>One of my favorite memories is when we went into town
>to play mini golf. He had his daytime Huggies on and
>it kept poking out the back of his shorts each time he
>bent over to pick up his ball. It was very cute!
>
>He was very well behaved and required no punishments.
>Afterward, he wore a Pull-Up for a few days to
>re-potty train.

What’s it like the first time he has a poopy diaper? Does his older bro tease him at all? Is he pretty embarrassed?

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Re: A Long Drive and Summer Plans Ahead -- Jen, 13:28:55 05/19/25 Mon