Re: How do I get started? -- Diaper and punishment for children and teens

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Date Posted: 04:44:39 07/11/25 Fri
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LionTamer
Subject: Re: How do I get started?
In reply to: Jeff 's message, "Re: How do I get started?" on 01:03:57 07/11/25 Fri

Thank you for the response. Yes my husband is the boys father's, I do talk to him about how I feel quite a lot. What happens is he "has a word" with the boys or we both come up with a plan, but it never lasts.
He has this idea that all 3nof us (Me, him and the boys mother) have to agree on disapline before we proceed, to keep things consistent in both home. Which means nothing lasts as anything I suggest gets shut down by the ex wife.

It's infuriating and currently unworkable their mother is far too lenient and relaxed.

>>Hello Everyone.
>>I'm a Stepmom to two children, they are 7 and 10, both
>>boys.
>>Neither respect me and I'm positive any attempts to
>>install a fixed disciplinary routine will meet with a
>>lot of resistance from their biological mother,
>>possible their dad too if the Mom complains to him.
>>
>>I've known the children for several years but only
>>married my husband a year ago, so the dynamic is now
>>different.
>>
>>Please help, in this situation what can I do?
>
>So wait, is their dad your current husband? Why dont
>you talk to him and tell him your issues first?

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